welcome to the forum bruv s.k. insha Allaah you'll have a beneficial stay here, and if you got any questionz 2 ask about islam or the forum - then plz do ask yeh.. jazak Allaah khayr.
Is it really personal bro? if it is then you can ask in the chatroom - in the brothers room, or you could ask in the bros section - but you have to have 50posts to be able to join that.
If its not too personal - you can ask in the Cyber Counselling section to get a more detailed answer insha Allaah.
well i think u have to be a full member to get into da chtrooms... if u have abt out 50 posts or more i think thn ur able to go into the cht rooms...
well good luck..
n i hope tht info help ya...
kudahafiz