[AnonymousPoster]

Assalamalikum brothers and sisters, just a quick question


How do u get the balance of loving ones self. Meaning not thinking of ones self highly as to get get arrrogant, nor hating ones self , causing sadness in your heart, despising your self..

Some one told me not too keep putting my self down as i always think im not worth any thing,, im scared i will get arrogant , that im better than any one else, so i really put my self down, which is not healthy

many thanks, jazakallah

 

[Woodrow]

This is a bit of a sticky problem for most of us. Yet the solution is at our finger tips.

I am not going to give you the answer, I am going to make you seek it out.

Answer: These short questions.


Are we permitted to harm our selves?

Does that include emotional harm?

How should we treat our fellow Brothers and Sisters in the Ummah?

Should you be treated the same way?

Look and you will the find answers in the Noble Qu'ran.

 

[noorseeker]

jazakallah brother woodrow, u got me thinkin now,, i see what you mean

 

[sangeeta]

Self love is very important, make affirmations on a daily basis about your good points,and ask people that know you well about what they like about you.
There is only one YOU, and you are unique, and there is a place for you to contribute to others in the right way.When you Love YOU, you can love others.When you can laugh at your own shortcomings you can easily forgive others for theirs.
People attract people,circumstances,opportunities based on their beliefs.
Love yourself fully and always remember your true creator!!!!!!!!!!!!!