Some Qur'aanic verses/Hadith wanted

[~Taalibah~]

Can someone please post up hadith/Qur'aanic Aayaat on marriage.

I know vaguely of 3 that i want specifically but not sure where i read them or to look them up.

1: There is an aayat stating something to the effect;
"Allah put love mercy and kindess in your hearts so that ......"

2: Something about obediance to the husband.

3: Something on the kindess to the wife.

I'd really appreciate it if someone can help me out. I just want the English text and the source of the hadith/ which aayat.


Jazakallah.

 

[Ummu Sufyaan]

try this: http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/10680/kind treatment of women

im not sure if it'll cover everything you are after, but from what i remember, the there was something in their about his rights/obedience to him lol

and concerning the wife

3 – The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) enjoined kind treatment and honouring of one’s wife, and he described the best of people as those who are best to their wives. He said: “The best of you are those who are the best to their wives, and I am the best of you to my wives.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 3895; Ibn Maajah, 1977; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.

4 – The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) spoke beautiful word concerning kind treatment of one’s wife, stating that when the husband feeds his wife and puts a morsel of food in her mouth, he earns the reward of doing an act of charity. He said, “You never spend anything but you will be rewarded for it, even the morsel of food that you lift to your wife’s mouth.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 6352; Muslim, 1628.

4 – And he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Fear Allaah with regard to women, for you have taken them as a trust from Allaah and intimacy with them has become permissible to you by the words of Allaah. Your right over them is that they should not allow anyone to sit on your furniture whom you dislike; if they do that then hit them but not in a harsh manner. And their right over you is that you should provide for them and clothe them on a reasonable basis.” Narrated by Muslim, 1218.

http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/41199/kind treatment of wife




and the ayah you are referring to:

[وَمِنْ ءايَـتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَجاً]
(And among His signs is this that He created for you wives from among yourselves,) meaning, `He created females of your own kind, to be wives for you.'

[لِّتَسْكُنُواْ إِلَيْهَا]
(that you may find repose in them,) This is like the Ayah,

[هُوَ الَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ مِّن نَّفْسٍ وَحِدَةٍ وَجَعَلَ مِنْهَا زَوْجَهَا لِيَسْكُنَ إِلَيْهَا]
(It is He Who has created you from a single person, and He has created from him his wife, in order that he might enjoy the pleasure of living with her) (7:189). This refers to Hawwa'. Allah created her from Adam, from the short rib on his left. If Allah had made all of Adam's progeny male, and created the females from another kind, such as from Jinn or animals, there would never have been harmony between them and their spouses. There would have been revulsion if the spouses had been from a different kind. Out of Allah's perfect mercy He made their wives from their own kind, and created love and kindness between them. For a man stays with a woman because he loves her, or because he feels compassion towards her if they have a child together, or because she needs him to take care of her, etc.

http://tafsir.com/default.asp?sid=30&tid=40245


also check these links out also
http://islamtoday.com/showme2.cfm?cat_id=35&sub_cat_id=2213
http://islamtoday.com/show_sub_section.cfm?main_cat_id=17&sub_cat_id=0
http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/41199/kind treatment of wife
http://www.islam-qa.com/en/cat/353&page=1 there ya go, ten pgs worth of fatwas :X

 

[Muhaba]

And among His Signs is this, that He created for you spouses from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect. (Surah 30, Ar-Rum, verse 21)