[salman786]

I find it odd, when I see hijabis but they are wearing tight tops and skinny jeans.
I dont know if you're like this or if you have friends who dress this way.
But why do you/they?
I have nothing against how people dress, because I dont wear the hijab etc

but it is like, why wear the hijaab and be modestly dressed only from the head?

 

[Re.TiReD]

I find it odd, when I see hijabis but they are wearing tight tops and skinny jeans.
I dont know if you're like this or if you have friends who dress this way.
But why do you/they?
I have nothing against how people dress, because I dont wear the hijab etc

but it is like, why wear the hijaab and be modestly dressed only from the head?

:salamext: Allah knows best their intentions and what is in their hearts brother so lets leave it at that Insha'Allah.

Looking at a previous thread of yours it seems you are very judgemental and critical of people (Jalebi thread), maybe you need to concentrate on your OWN Imaan rather than on others. Allah ma'3k.

 

[Isma'el]

I find it odd, when I see hijabis but they are wearing tight tops and skinny jeans.
I dont know if you're like this or if you have friends who dress this way.
But why do you/they?
I have nothing against how people dress, because I dont wear the hijab etc

but it is like, why wear the hijaab and be modestly dressed only from the head?

because they just wear it as a fashion accessory,,and noway in a million years you call that islamic...ther all lost!!!! these are the same ones that go to so called "islamic" nasheeds concert n scream n shoute..,, like in a normal corcert ...........allah knows best

 

[Pk_#2]

because they just wear it as a fashion accessory,,and noway in a million years you call that islamic...ther all lost!!!! these are the same ones that go to so called "islamic" nasheeds concert n scream n shoute..,, like in a normal corcert ...........allah knows best

There is no such thing as an 'Islamic' concert :exhausted Astaghfirullah don't go to them eww.

Jalebi's yum

JihaduNafs YUM.

May Allah (subhana wa ta'ala) guide the sisters, the brothers erm the ummah.

Ameeeeeeeeeeeen (say Ameen)

 

[sevgi]

just a few things to say here.

i wear the hijab and inshallah i believe that i wear it well. i do not wear an abayah and could probably hit it up a notch...but i do not wear pants and i do not wear tight tops and i do my hijab quite large so it covers...

that being said...i must draw attention to a few things. firstly, this thread is highly offensive on the brothers behalf...the comments made by the brothers are so off whack!!! u need to sit back and think for a second abt sisters and what they go thru.

no im no feminist, leftist, home coming rookie, or anything...

the biggest struggle for guys is what??? yeah u guessed it...no need to mention...

the biggest struggle for chicks is the same hardness..but in terms of covering beauty...hiding what uve got...

the number of times ive looked in the mirror when im at hm and just said " i wish i could just show everyone" is countless...

the number of times i have been sworn at for my scarf on busy roads next to twenty other uni students waiting for a bus is countless...

the number of times i have gone shopping and found nothing decent to wear is countless...

the number of times i have stopped to have a rest due to how hot it is and how stuffy it is when u cant even feel wind on ur neck and wrists and feet is countless...

the number of times i have ran out to get the mail or throw out the trash without a hijab on at like 12am just to 'see how it feels' is countless...

the number of times i have wanted to scream out to people that 'i am just like u..dnt gimme looks or ignore me' is countless...

the number of times i have watched tv or gone shopping and said "i wish i could wear that" is countless...

the number of times a brother has walked past me and put his head down, the i saw him with non muslim chiks hanging out is countless...

u guys are so anal.think abt the day and age we live in.think about what women and young girls struggle with...IT IS THE HARDEST THING FOR A GIRLS NAFS!!! insteading of dissing em why not lift ur head,,,acknowldge them for being strong ENUF to even consider putting it on...say ur salams so they dnt feel like they are even alienated from muslim guys as well...and if u see something 'wrong' pray in ur head and heart... that Allah makes this challenge an easy one...and that their imaan grows...

and look at ur own struggles..and feel some empathy.

 

[Ambish]

just a few things to say here.

i wear the hijab and inshallah i believe that i wear it well. i do not wear an abayah and could probably hit it up a notch...but i do not wear pants and i do not wear tight tops and i do my hijab quite large so it covers...

that being said...i must draw attention to a few things. firstly, this thread is highly offensive on the brothers behalf...the comments made by the brothers are so off whack!!! u need to sit back and think for a second abt sisters and what they go thru.

no im no feminist, leftist, home coming rookie, or anything...

the biggest struggle for guys is what??? yeah u guessed it...no need to mention...

the biggest struggle for chicks is the same hardness..but in terms of covering beauty...hiding what uve got...

the number of times ive looked in the mirror when im at hm and just said " i wish i could just show everyone" is countless...

the number of times i have been sworn at for my scarf on busy roads next to twenty other uni students waiting for a bus is countless...

the number of times i have gone shopping and found nothing decent to wear is countless...

the number of times i have stopped to have a rest due to how hot it is and how stuffy it is when u cant even feel wind on ur neck and wrists and feet is countless...

the number of times i have ran out to get the mail or throw out the trash without a hijab on at like 12am just to 'see how it feels' is countless...

the number of times i have wanted to scream out to people that 'i am just like u..dnt gimme looks or ignore me' is countless...

the number of times i have watched tv or gone shopping and said "i wish i could wear that" is countless...

the number of times a brother has walked past me and put his head down, the i saw him with non muslim chiks hanging out is countless...

u guys are so anal.think abt the day and age we live in.think about what women and young girls struggle with...IT IS THE HARDEST THING FOR A GIRLS NAFS!!! insteading of dissing em why not lift ur head,,,acknowldge them for being strong ENUF to even consider putting it on...say ur salams so they dnt feel like they are even alienated from muslim guys as well...and if u see something 'wrong' pray in ur head and heart... that Allah makes this challenge an easy one...and that their imaan grows...

and look at ur own struggles..and feel some empathy.

Asalamo alaikum I was just reading through and your' reply is a real eye opener for everyone with regards to the hurdles faced by muslim women and I pray that I can too join in with the many women like yourself inshallah.

 

[Isma'el]

sis it seems u need to open yr eyes..! it seem u liv a shelterd life....u think yr the only one that is wiv problems..n what the heck u on about u feel like u wanna show everything,,,,u need some serious advice ,,go c a scholar

 

[al Amaanah]

 

[rozeena]

carm dwn people.eace: and sis summeya i totali agree with you theirs many girls out their that find it difficult etc, bt the point is they r still trying for allah wich is the main point and who r we to judge. thanxs 4 sharin sis

 

[rozeena]

lol!

 

[Abu Musab]

There is no such thing as an 'Islamic' concert :exhausted Astaghfirullah don't go to them eww.

Jalebi's yum

JihaduNafs YUM.

May Allah (subhana wa ta'ala) guide the sisters, the brothers erm the ummah.

Ameeeeeeeeeeeen (say Ameen)

Ameen.

 

[Kittygyal]

Salamualikum.

Brother what has it got something to do with you ha?.. I don't seem to understand why ask this question as this is between the person and Allaah, so no matter what a person does or wear that is between them self and Allaah.Brother so what if they wear Hijab and tight clothing, let them wear it init nothing to do with me or you or matter of fact ANYONE apart from Allaah!!

Don't judge others, leave it to Allaah.

This thread should be closed.

Ma'assalama

 

[Isma'el]

""lift ur head,,,acknowldge them for being strong ENUF to even consider putting it on...say ur salams so they dnt feel like they are even alienated from muslim guys as well"" lol


Al-Nour (The Light)

24:30 Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and to be mindful of their chastity: [36] this will be most con­ducive to their purity – [and,] verily, God is aware of all that they do.


Al-Nour (The Light)

24:31 And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and to be mindful of their chastity, and not to display their charms [in public] beyond what may [decently] be apparent thereof; [37] hence, let them draw their head-coverings over their bosoms. [38] And let them not display [more of] their charms to any but their husbands, or their fathers, or their husbands’ fathers, or their sons, or their husbands’ Sons, or their brothers, or their brothers’ sons, or their sisters’ sons, or their womenfolk, or those whom they rightfully possess, or such male attendants as are beyond all sexual desire, [39] or children that are as yet unaware of women’s nakedness; and let them not swing their legs [in walking] so as to draw attention to their hidden charms [40] And [always], O you believers - all of you - turn unto God in repentance, so that you might attain to a happy state!

 

[Isma'el]

Salamualikum.

Brother what has it got something to do with you ha?.. I don't seem to understand why ask this question as this is between the person and Allaah, so no matter what a person does or wear that is between them self and Allaah.Brother so what if they wear Hijab and tight clothing, let them wear it init nothing to do with me or you or matter of fact ANYONE apart from Allaah!!

Don't judge others, leave it to Allaah.

This thread should be closed.

Ma'assalama

sis its your job to put them in the right path,,,as a muslim

 

[Kittygyal]

sis its your job to put them in the right path,,,as a muslim

Salamualikum.
No it isn't my job cause if i don't know the person i won't say anything as obviously they will just start arguing with me and stuff... if it was my homie or blad then obviously i will tell them to do what is right and leave whats bad but as mine are all Christains i can't do anything about that :exhausted. If it was my Muslim friend then ya i will tell her and stuff but i would certainly not go around local and tell people to wear neat clothes and stuff...there 'rents should do that! ... Also remember one thing... im sure as a muslim they know whats good and what aint so they will be judged on day of Judgment init.

Like i said leave it to Allaah and forget the backbitting man!

Ma'assalama

 

[Ghira]

I think they want to do good but are confused on how to do good. They have not really found their Identity and are in pschopsycho Moratorium = experimenting with different identities to find an identity. Trying to mainly set themselves apart from the real conservative dress or thier parents (if they dress in a modest way). This stage is accepted amongst males in liberal families but not with females. May Allah (swt) guide them.

 

[Kittygyal]

Salamualikum.
Talking about my self here... i can't wear baggy loose clothing as family don't allow me to and i do wear ma jilb and hijab when going out like to shop or somehwere but when im going to my own homies house then im not allowed.

Well some people have problems why not to wear loose clothing and stuff like me. Allaah understand insha'Allaah

Ma'assalama

 

[Umm Hurairah]

May Allah (subhana wa ta'ala) guide the sisters, the brothers erm the ummah.

Ameeeeeeeeeeeen (say Ameen)

Ameen!

 

[al Amaanah]

I agree with Isma'el, u as a muslim should/could give naseeha if you see someone doing something which isnt Islamic. Its a naseeha, the person whom ure giving naseeha to should not be angry cause the other does it for the sake of Allah. (insha Allah) But giving naseeha must be done in a certain way, not in a harsh, shamefull way.

Narrated by Imaam Muslim in his Saheeh which he attributes to the Prophet salla Allahu 'alaihi wassalam: “Whoever among you sees an evil action, then let him change it with his hand [by taking action]; if he cannot, then with his tongue [by speaking out]; and if he cannot, then with his heart – and that is the weakest of faith.”

wa Allahu a3lam.

 

[nebula]

just a few things to say here.

i wear the hijab and inshallah i believe that i wear it well. i do not wear an abayah and could probably hit it up a notch...but i do not wear pants and i do not wear tight tops and i do my hijab quite large so it covers...

that being said...i must draw attention to a few things. firstly, this thread is highly offensive on the brothers behalf...the comments made by the brothers are so off whack!!! u need to sit back and think for a second abt sisters and what they go thru.

no im no feminist, leftist, home coming rookie, or anything...

the biggest struggle for guys is what??? yeah u guessed it...no need to mention...

the biggest struggle for chicks is the same hardness..but in terms of covering beauty...hiding what uve got...

the number of times ive looked in the mirror when im at hm and just said " i wish i could just show everyone" is countless...

the number of times i have been sworn at for my scarf on busy roads next to twenty other uni students waiting for a bus is countless...

the number of times i have gone shopping and found nothing decent to wear is countless...

the number of times i have stopped to have a rest due to how hot it is and how stuffy it is when u cant even feel wind on ur neck and wrists and feet is countless...

the number of times i have ran out to get the mail or throw out the trash without a hijab on at like 12am just to 'see how it feels' is countless...

the number of times i have wanted to scream out to people that 'i am just like u..dnt gimme looks or ignore me' is countless...

the number of times i have watched tv or gone shopping and said "i wish i could wear that" is countless...

the number of times a brother has walked past me and put his head down, the i saw him with non muslim chiks hanging out is countless...

u guys are so anal.think abt the day and age we live in.think about what women and young girls struggle with...IT IS THE HARDEST THING FOR A GIRLS NAFS!!! insteading of dissing em why not lift ur head,,,acknowldge them for being strong ENUF to even consider putting it on...say ur salams so they dnt feel like they are even alienated from muslim guys as well...and if u see something 'wrong' pray in ur head and heart... that Allah makes this challenge an easy one...and that their imaan grows...

and look at ur own struggles..and feel some empathy.

wow sis seriously i feel for you man... i never really thought it was that hard wearing a hijaab... but hey ur doing it for Allah sis inshallah proud of you sis!
and oh yeah the thing u were saying about people calling you names when ur at a busstop and busy roads; do you know how many times i get called names for the way i look? because of my skin colour? this dunya is completely ****** up ppl judging you on the way you look? wtf is that about? i get pissed and depressed at times coz i just wanna **** the sh*t out of people sometimes but then i think nah allow it its not worth it besides even if i did i would just get rushed or something coz im a minority...

so sis ur not alone on this yeah!! uve got all of us lot ur bros and sisters inshallah!

KEEP UR HEAD HIGH AND FEAR NO1 BUT ALLAH!! ALLAH AKBAR!

peace eace: