totally utterly in despair

[AnonymousPoster]

This person is talking to herself??

oh: I'd like to know as well.

Probably not.
More likely these are different posters using the 'anonymous function'.
It gets confusing when more than one poster choose that option ... perhaps anonymous users could indicate whether they are the original poster or somebody else ...

peace

I have posted annonymously but some one else has also replied unnonymously.