What if I told you that as a Muslim and human being you are in your rights to disagree with a scholar's ruling.
A scholar is a human like you and I, as such is infallible and prone to error. The scholar is grossly mistaken in this case.
Yes, this thread confirms what you say
http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?449315-Muslims-CANNOT-have-FORCED-SEX-with-female-slaves
Dawud :: Book 35 : Hadith 4234
Narrated Hudhayfah:The tradition mentioned above (No. 4232) has also been transmitted through a different chain of narrators by Nasr ibn Asim al-Laythi who said: We came to al-Yashkuri with a group of the people of Banu Layth.
He asked: Who are these people? We replied: Banu Layth. We have come to you to ask you about the tradition of Hudhayfah. He then mentioned the tradition and said: I asked: Apostle of Allah, will there be evil after this good?
He replied: There will be trial (fitnah) and evil. I asked: Apostle of Allah, will there be good after this evil? He replied:
Learn the Book of Allah, Hudhayfah, and adhere to its contents. He said it three times.
I asked: Apostle of Allah, will there be good after this evil? He replied: An illusory truce and a community with specks in its eye. I asked: Apostle of Allah, what do you mean by an illusory community?
He replied: The hearts of the people will not return to their former condition. I asked: Apostle of Allah, will there be evil after this good? He replied:
There will be wrong belief which will blind and deafen men to the truth in which there will be summoners at the gates of Hell. If you, Hudhayfah, die adhering to a stump, it will be better for you than following any of them.
DUDE, you have to realise. The Enemy is no longer just the kuffar against Islam. But hypocrites, or those who say they are Muslims but are not Muslims. Do NOT trust every Muslim you encounter.
So this is true too and we can't trust everyone blindly but verify the facts with proper reasoning because
Mischief makers will always be there amongst us and this hadith confirms that too
A time will come when the
hypocrites will live secretly among you, and the faithful will try to live their religion in secret among others.(Agreed upon)
The fourth rightly guided Khalifah, 'Ali , had ruled that whenever two parties of Muslims fight each other for any reason, the winners are not allowed to take anything from the losers, no booty and no slaves.
Nobody has the right to change this ruling.
Jazakallah for this info and even from the above thread
The slave women are ONLY those women who had indulged in the battle or on the battle field and not those who went to market place in a country of war or stayed at their homes, Churches and other war free public places.