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A person meets a woman on an islamic forum.This person is still christain.After sending private messages, she gives him her email and give him information about her self.As a muslim what types of topics he shall bring up and how to earn her confidence and make her convert.She is still still reading QURAN
 
1. Convert for the sake of Allah, and not for the sake of you.
2. Send a sister to talk to her because you shouldn't have secret conversations with women.
 
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As a muslim what types of topics he shall bring up and how to earn her confidence and make her convert.She is still still reading QURAN
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huh? make Her convert? a mispelling perhaps, but why gain her confidence? my bro, are you joking or seriously asking?
 
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Send a sister to talk to her because you shouldn't have secret conversations with women.
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I don't know much about this. Just secret conversations?
 
Whatever conversation you may have... make sure that you would not be ashamed if it was read out loud in front of a congregation of believers, friends, family...etc.
 
no dont talk with her if she has not yet reverted. there is loads of sisters here who could give her dawah but then again on which forum did you meet her yes you might want to get a sister and she should not revert for anybody only herself. please try to understand that what she will learn about islam if a non mahram is chatting her up then she will think later maybe that muslims are not good and they are totally the same as non muslims because i have heard of it happen many times on chat rooms. after she will learn and study about islam and possibly revert maybe you could contact her again.Allah knows best.
 
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The issue under discussion here also comes under this category. Conversation whether verbally or in writing between men and women is permissible in and of itself, but it may be a way of falling into the traps of the Shaytaan.

Whoever knows that he is somewhat weak, and is afraid that he may fall into the traps of the Shaytaan, has to refrain from such conversations, in order to save himself.

Whoever is sure that he will be able to remain steadfast, then we think that it is permissible in his case, but there are certain conditions: The issue under discussion here also comes under this category. Conversation whether verbally or in writing between men and women is permissible in and of itself, but it may be a way of falling into the traps of the Shaytaan.

Whoever knows that he is somewhat weak, and is afraid that he may fall into the traps of the Shaytaan, has to refrain from such conversations, in order to save himself.

Whoever is sure that he will be able to remain steadfast, then we think that it is permissible in his case, but there are certain conditions: The conversation should not be allowed to wander too far from the topic being discussed; or it should be for the purposes of calling others to Islam.

They should not let their voices be soft, or use soft and gentle expressions.

They should not ask about personal matters that have no bearing on the matter being discussed, such as how old a person is, how tall he or she is, or where he or she lives etc.

Other brothers (in the case of men) or sisters (in the case of women) should take part in the conversation or read the correspondence, so that the Shaytaan will find no way to enter the hearts of the people who are conversing or corresponding.
The conversation or correspondence must be halted immediately if the heart starts to stir with feelings of desire.




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Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid

http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/6453




Islam Q&A
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid

http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/6453
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