Wasa wasa of divorce

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Assalamu alaikum
If a person writes on paper intending that his wife is halal for him but h looks like n and halal looks like nalal will any talaq occur? He at once correct the word halal. And he writes it because of waswasa. I'm sorry to ask this type of question but please reply kindly.
 
Divorce

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If a person intends to sing to his wife that she is not perfectly wrong for him but mistakenly he says that she is perfectly wrong for him which is the lyrics and later he says, that's why it's so hard to leave intending that he won't leave her. Is that a divorce? Later he said that she is not wrong for him.
 
Wa alaykum salam,

Nalal is not a word. Even if you intentionally wrote nalal, that would not make a talaq.

You are overthinking.

The best way to overcome these waswas is to ignore them. Don't give them any opportunity to fester.
 
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No, it's not a divorce. Don't overthink.

You should spend time doing dhikr of Allah. The more you remember him, the less these shaytanic waswas will affect you.
 
Divorce

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If a person gets waswasa about zihar and he doesn't want to divorce her wife, and if he swears by Allah that he and his wife has only spouse and marital relationship and no other relationships (paused for a while) except marital. Then after sometime he forgets that if he said no other relationship in world or no relationship in world. He again swore and said they only have marital relationship.
In this situation will any talaq occur if he said the 2nd sentence (no relationship in the world although after a while he said except marital)? And in 1st sentence (no other relationship) will talaq occur?
 
Divorce

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If a person says that he has done a thing and suddenly divorce word comes to his mind will that count as divorce? He has no intention of divorce. And then he clearly said that it was not divorce.
If he says that he did not divorce but while saying divorce in his mind comes he divorced is that divorce?
 
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I'm sorry to ask this question but please kindly reply.
If a person is making dua for something and while he says Ameen then divorce word comes to his mind then he again says Ameen and again divorce word comes to his mind. Is that count as divorce or just waswas?
 
Divorce

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If a person writes and says that no talaq is happening. So, using divorce words in sentence does it constitute any divorce?
 
Divorce

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If a person writes that " no divorce is not happening " and his intention is not to give divorce. But while writing these if suddenly comes to his mind that he is giving divorce. But he utters that he is not giving.
Then is this becomes a divorce?
 
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Wa alaykum salam,

No it doesn't.

Brother, let go. You have created numerous threads in the same topic. I understand that you have some kind of difficulty in this issue but try to ignore these thoughts.

Firstly, there is no need to write such a letter in the first place. Don't do it again. Secondly, ignore your fleeting thoughts. You seem to be plagued by them. The more you pay attention to them, the more you will be consumed by them. Ignore them and let them go away. Even if you get the worst of the worst thought in the world or you have a fleeting thought that you have divorced your wife, it doesn't make it real.

Also, I have mentioned in one of your previous threads that you should look to increase your dhikr. The more you remember Allah, the less you will be affected by shaytanic whispers and uncoordinated fleeting thoughts of this nature.

May Allah make things easy for you. Aameen
 
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eesa the kiwi said:
Wa alaikum Salam wa rahmatullah wa barakatu

Sounds like you are quite sick with waswas
Try to ignore it
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To put it in a more appropriate manner it seems they are suffering of intrusive thoughts. Trying to ignore them is a whole other topic.
 
Divorce waswas

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I'm sorry to ask this question but please help by replying this.
If a person intends to say to his wife that " you are not haram and you are halal." But while saying he said " you are n( then he pauses and doesn't want to say in that way then he wants to say you are halal) and said halal. Thus the sentence becomes you are n halal.
Is that a divorce?
 
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You are suffering from intrusive thoughts. Please see a doctor for treatment.
 
Divorce waswas

Assalamu alaikum
Sorry for asking this question but can't find relief. Please reply.
If a person gets waswas about a conditional divorce but for resistance he thinks he will never give and his wife will be halal. Then for highlighting he says loudly "No, Never. She's only halal."
Is this any kind of divorce as before saying No, Never he thought she is halal? He later clearly said that she is halal.
 
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pmjHossain said:
Assalamu alaikum
Sorry for asking this question but can't find relief. Please reply.
If a person gets waswas about a conditional divorce but for resistance he thinks he will never give and his wife will be halal. Then for highlighting he says loudly "No, Never. She's only halal."
Is this any kind of divorce as before saying No, Never he thought she is halal? He later clearly said that she is halal.
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It's okay, brother, but you need the help of a doctor. These thoughts of yours are not rational. We cannot help you. The poblem is not in this what you're asking, the problem is in your mind. It can be helped, but you need a doctor for that.
 
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HowManyMore said:
It's okay, brother, but you need the help of a doctor. These thoughts of yours are not rational. We cannot help you. The poblem is not in this what you're asking, the problem is in your mind. It can be helped, but you need a doctor for that.
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Exactly right.i also suggest you this.
 

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