lol i think its nice, Allah doesnt want us to spend all that time Alone

gotta love Allah
Yeah, it's a nice idea, but again, I trust you to still be thinking metaphorically, not literally. If literal, then we are back to all of the problems associated with some of my above questions about what happens with decayed, dismembered, and the reality that our literal physical bodies don't really last very long after we quit using them in this life. It is one thing to talk about Allah pulling them back together in the resurrection, and it is a comforting thought to think that Allah sends us a companion to be with us in the grave. But isn't the reality that our bodies aren't always in that grave. Some are cremated, some are lost at sea unrecoverable and go the way of all flesh, others cannot even be gathered to by buried, and all eventually return to the dust of the ground in one way or another. What you speak of must be taking place on a spiritual plane -- which doesn't make it any less real, in my opinion -- and thus is not something that we can see with our physical eyes, but only with the eye of faith.
I would go so far as to say that even as we await the resurrection that who we are as a person is not connected with a physical body -- indeed even in this life our physical bodies are one thing, but who we are as a person is the soul that Allah created, not what appears before you when you look in a mirror. You want to test that out, look in a mirror today and then either think back 20 years or wait 20 years and think of that body then. Not a single cell from the one time will be present in the other. (In fact, according to science articles I have read, all the cells of our body will be replaced over a span of 3 years, so in a sense you are never more than 3 years old. No matter how healthy we may otherwise be, when our body's cells quit this process we will die of simple old age.) Yet, even as our body's physical make-up changes we still remain the same person that we were 20 years ago. Talk to someone older than you, they will tell you that they feel their body getting old, but they don't really sense that they are any older, any different as a person than they were years ago. This is why I say that the person and the body are not one and the same. The body houses the person, but they are not identical. Losing a limb is a terrible thing, but the person is still the same person. Lose your life and the person continues even after the death of the body. So, to say that Allah sens someone to be with us in the grave, with who or with what? With my body? I am not in the body. I am someplace else (don't know exactly where that is in relation to this physical world, I can't sense it with any of my 5 physical senses), in a world that Allah has prepared for me. If I am there sleeping till the time of the resurrection, then it is in that place (not my grave on earth), that I rest in the arms of a companion that Allah has provided for me.
Just my thoughts on the subject. Curious as to anyone else's thoughts.