sorry to have to do this but as i was writing this the thread got closed so i thought i will say it as i went through the time of writing this. i still think that it should get solved regardless of the thread getting closed.
i think there is a serious problem about the subject on free mixing aswell especially with the smileys.
it was good of sister ukhti to point this out because that it the only way to make ourselves better and to correct ourselves but unfortunately a majority of us are insulting her further and being prejudice to her about her beliefs and blaming her tareeqah in a whole.
we are handling this terribly [not for all but some].
i believe if there is a problem then one should point out otherwise the answer to their question will never get solved. and sister ukhti has done just that and her tareeqah aswell so there is no problem in that.
[QUOTE KHALDUN]
we should all go back to the sunnah of the prophet and look at how he used to advice people
brother has said this which is sooo true not just for sister ukhti but those who are speaking rudely and commenting very harshly about her or to her. this is not solving the problem. im shocked that it is coming from moderators and a long member as they should know best and be worried for the fact that they are losing members. if thats the way they are going on then they will lose many of them.
please brothers and sisters let us not dispute with one another muslims but to only solve the problem said by this muslim sister, inshallah.
