Faqih Abul Layth Samarqandi (rahimahullah) has offered the following beautiful suggestions:
“If anyone brings a bad report to you concerning somebody else, do the following 6 things:
1.Don’t believe him, for those who carry tales are usually liars.
2.Stop him from relaying such allegations. You are duty bound to stop the wrong. (Nahy ‘anil munkar)
3.Detest this act from the depth of your heart.
4.Don’t entertain evil thoughts about the third person (the one against whom the allegations were made)
5.Don’t probe in the matter.
6.Don’t share that information with others.
(Tambihul Ghafilin, pg.131)
“If anyone brings a bad report to you concerning somebody else, do the following 6 things:
1.Don’t believe him, for those who carry tales are usually liars.
2.Stop him from relaying such allegations. You are duty bound to stop the wrong. (Nahy ‘anil munkar)
3.Detest this act from the depth of your heart.
4.Don’t entertain evil thoughts about the third person (the one against whom the allegations were made)
5.Don’t probe in the matter.
6.Don’t share that information with others.
(Tambihul Ghafilin, pg.131)