[Bint-e-Adam]

i wanna ask something here.
i want to write here a problem that is with some one.
A person who has done many kinds of sin not actually by mistake. he has done gunah e kabera also that includes: zinaa, theft, gheebat, jealousy, parent's disobeyance, deceiving parents at every step. and all these sins he commit until the age of 18.
as he is also a muslim by birth, and doing all the sins from 10 years old and also, when hee was comiting any sin, he thinks and ssatisfy himself as he is not foing bad thing.
in a nutshell, he was very sinful.
but as he attain hidayat from Allah, he stopped doing all these sins. he started saying prayers and all good actions.
but now my question is:
"he asking for tauba from Allah since many years. but he repents all the time long until now. he dont think his life as normal. he think that his tauba is not accepted as he consider himslef a Firuon, as firuon asked for tauba again and again and he ,according to his view,is doing so also. is this repentance have to be end?or after doing so sins he have to forget everythng?how is it possbl to forget abt ur own sins ???is his whole life must be repentance?"

 

[Alpha Dude]

Your friend is going into the extreme of having lost hope in the mercy of Allah - there should be a balance of hope and fear. Allah is All Merciful so if your friend is sincere then InshaAllah he will be forgiven. We should have a good opinion of Allah. There is a hadith which says to the effect that Allah is as the servant thinks him to be. So if your friend believes by default that Allah is full of mercy and forgiveness then that inshaAllah is what will happen. If he doesn't believe in the Mercy and Justice of Allah then that is a sin actually. Just be moderate. Ask for forgiveness from Allah, ask for forgiveness from people he has wronged and believe that Allah will forgive inshaAllah.

Him seeking forgiveness his entire life for his major sins is a non-issue - we should all be doing that anyway, seeking forgiveness for all our sins every day till we die, even if our sins are minor.

Firaun's acceptance of Islam was made at a time when it was too late for him, just before he was about to die. Your friend has his life in front of him so his situation is completely different to firaun.

 

[Bint-e-Adam]

really really thanks for replying here and answering completely leading to hopefulness.
may Allah bless you too many rewards ameen.