What's allowed in love?

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Salam Aleykum brothers and sisters!
I'm in love with a girl, she is in the same age like me, but she isn't muslim.
I'd like to know what things are allowed in love? I know that I must not have sex with her. But what else can I do with her? Kissing? But this kissing is going for a long time... Or can I do anything with her, except have sex? So, please help me!
 
Assalmu Alikum

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Brother you’re not supposed to indulge in any sexual activities with another girl. This can only take place within marriage and you are not allowed to marry a non-Muslim, unless if they are a Christian/Jew but that is a different issue. Dating in our religion is haram.
 
maybe you could both meet with significant others and pray namaz as a group,im not sure if ok, but it would be right direction i think
 
just remember one single rule. we are not allowed to shake the women's hand, so all other things, kissing etc, are not possible :)
 
Okay, thank you guys! I just asked the question since about 10 minuted and I got some answer already. Thanks!

Yeah, she isn't a muslim... But... I just recognized how hard Islam is... I may talk to her some time. :S
 
salaam

Is she christian or Jewish?

what do you mean you didnt know how hard Islam is?
 
lol it seems hard when you're not used to it bro.. but as you learn more and you take note of how premarital relationships affect society as a whole where they are allowed, you will begin to realise that prevention is better than cure :)
 
Zafran said:
salaam

Is she christian or Jewish?

what do you mean you didnt know how hard Islam is?
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She isn't christian and not even Jewish, but not atheist. She thinks ther is god, but she not part of any religion.

And I meant "how hard Islam is", 'cuase it's a bad, I must not hugh her or kiss her. But Allah wants it, then let it be. Ameen.
 
Guestfellow said:
Assalmu Alikum.

She isn't a muslim. :/

Peace.
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oh ok, sorry. Brother speaking as a convert, when you begin to really love Allah, Mohammad(peace be upon him) and Islam, I can honestly say that you will have no deire to marry a non muslim girl, Sorry if it sounds conceited but they are not good enough for us bro, or maybe a better way to put it is, the relationship would be far from good enough for Allah. May Allah guide you, and may you begin to realise what a truly incredible journey it is to become a Muslim, Ameen
 
Tony said:
oh ok, sorry. Brother speaking as a convert, when you begin to really love Allah, Mohammad(peace be upon him) and Islam, I can honestly say that you will have no deire to marry a non muslim girl, Sorry if it sounds conceited but they are not good enough for us bro, or maybe a better way to put it is, the relationship would be far from good enough for Allah. May Allah guide you, and may you begin to realise what a truly incredible journey it is to become a Muslim, Ameen
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Thank you Tony.
 
Mohamed_ said:
Should I break my love with her?
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I feel for you bot brother, have you discussed Islam with her at all ? I think maybe you should put the hand brake on but I get how hard it will be, perhaps you can tell her of Islam somehow without being in a haram situation, but bottom line is your beleif in Allah and fulfilling your covenant with Him is more important than anything now bro. Maybe some of the other brothers here can guide you better than I, I will make dua for you. Peace and respect bro
 
Tony said:
I feel for you bot brother, have you discussed Islam with her at all ? I think maybe you should put the hand brake on but I get how hard it will be, perhaps you can tell her of Islam somehow without being in a haram situation, but bottom line is your beleif in Allah and fulfilling your covenant with Him is more important than anything now bro. Maybe some of the other brothers here can guide you better than I, I will make dua for you. Peace and respect bro
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Sound make me sad. imsad But I promised I don't want to make Allah angy at me. :hmm:
But I didn't tell her yet that I'm a real muslim now. She was my gilrfriend before I converted. But then I have to tell her that I promised her I will never tell... imsad It's really hard now. imsad
 
Mohamed_ said:
Sound make me sad. imsad But I promised I don't want to make Allah angy at me. :hmm:
But I didn't tell her yet that I'm a real muslim now. She was my gilrfriend before I converted. But then I have to tell her that I promised her I will never tell... imsad It's really hard now. imsad
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Brother I will pray foryou at Fajr. And welcome to Islam, Assalamu aleiykum
 

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