^what if it involves how other people treat you? for eg someone may mistreats you due to their own shortcomings, basically they dont realize what they are doing, BUT becuase you understand where they are coming and understand their mentality, then you let it go and dont say anything. is that being stupid :embarrass:hiding: i know the answer is really obvious, but if i can even slightly understand someones troubles, then i understand why they would do what they would do so chances are i wouldn't say or do anything in my own defense :hiding: