Thank you very much for all of your replies. I apologize I couldn't get back sooner, been very busy lately.
I do have a problem with this person who keeps attacking Islam in front of me. I already told him I'm not interested to talk to him about Islam because of all the negativities he's telling me, in which, I am not in a position to defend or refute what he says due to my limited knowledge in Islam. Despite of this, he dared to ask me one day, "what am I afraid of?" and "why am I afraid of the truth?". I didn't tell him that I am afraid which I really am because I don't really know enough about Islam to make an argument. Worse case is, I work with this person day in and day out, five days a week and sometimes during weekends. How can I possibly avoid him? I can't just quit my job just because this person has negative view against Islam. I have my family to feed.
I think I just need to study more about Islam to refute him. My co-worker doesn't know I use the internet to search for information about Islam, that's why I'm glad Muslims here would help me out. I'm already gathering my evidence to refute him this Monday.
Our last conversation was about the subject of satan's deception to mankind. He said satan used Islam to deceive mankind to not believe in God's mercy of forgiveness of sin through Jesus Christ. I didn't even know he believes in Jesus Christ unitl he showed the effort to convince me just recently not to join Islam. I tried to use the argument that satan can not possibly use Islam because Islam has a lot of good things mankind can use in the name of God. My co-worker, said that satan will do anything to try to lead mankind away from God, even appearing to us like an angel of light and by using a false religion to drive people away from God. He said throughout the history of mankind, satan has been using false religion, from the Egyptians, Babylonians, Persians, and through the Mayans and the Incas of South America. All of these civilizations which fell before false religions eventually persished and died, and worse he added that like those civilizations, Islam will rise but eventually will fall among the remnants of the dead. He also uses a lot of verses from the Bible. I don't know how he can memorize those verses.
I came to think that this person is a racist prejudice person who hates Muslims and Islam, but he dared to tell me that he loves the Muslims and all humanity because everyone is God's creation. Further, he said that Muslims are the first victims of Islam, therefore, should be the very first ones to be saved from it. I want to make him say something stupid other than saying bad things about Islam so I have a reason to punch him on his face, but he's really smart. He will always talk about Islam when someone is around as if making a political speech or making a campaign to run for president. I don't think his intention is just to convince me but also to convince the rest of my co-workers that Islam is evil. Fortunately, the rest of my co-workers just shrugged him off and laugh.
I don't really know what to do with this person. He just gets in my nerve all the time, but I just can't show it to everyone. I don't want to look like the bad guy. I just can't avoid him because he would ask me like "How is your interest in Islam working for you?" in front of everybody at work just to humiliate me. He knows I am incapable of refuting him through discussions. Sometimes I would just tell him I have enough talk about religion but he seems to be obsessed with Islam and would try to trap me into having a conversation about Islam and the Muslims, no matter what the conversation is all about.
I feel like it is my duty to know more about Islam as a challenge to refute this person and trust me I will. I have been to a lot of sites specializing in discussions about Islam like the links provided by some Muslims here. It will take some time but I think I can handle it. For now I have been reading a lot of resources from Islamic sites, and like Muslims would always say, Inshallah, I will succeed.
Salam Alekom,
Actually I think this person is making for you very good favor, simply because he almost push you to KNOW, and what a great thing to KNOW!
First of all I dont think you should avoid him at all but other wise you should discuss things with him, it is not a problem who will win or loose the discussion but to find TRUTH at the end and may Allah (swt) guide us all!
And in Islam you we always find answers!
Actually I am amazed how Christians can attack Islam, it is same like some one throw rocks on others when his home is made from glass, not mentioning that the home of Islam is from IRON!
In Islam there is source for everything and our source is what came from Allah (swt) through HIS prophet Mohamed (pbuh) which is QURAN and SUNNAH anyone who says anything that have no source from those two sources it becomes his personal opinion!
So the question is, do we follow personal opinions of other humans like us or we follow God’s words, teachings guide !?
If you follow humans then Christianity is the best way, if you follow GOD then ISLAM because it is FINAL TESTMENT beside it contain all previous revelations as Christians and Jews failed to save it!
Now first point that he mentioned to you about Gabriel who came to Prophet Mohamed (pbuh) in the cave, I wonder is it because he said that this is the way of Satan to apear then we believe him!?
What is his source to what he say!?
Actually logically I think Satan is deceiving people and he would come in cloths of sheep like Jesus (pbuh) said in the bible (wolf in cloths of sheep), right!?
Now what did Gabriel did in the cave!?
1- He bring the message from Allah (swt) to all man Kind)
2- First words were given to Prophet Mohamed (pbuh) were:
READ, READ BY THE NAME OF YOUR CREATOR!
So as you see Gabriel didn’t come to introduce himself. or our friend wanted him to come in suit and give Prophet Mohamed (pbuh) his business card !?
This word READ were not for Prophet Mohamed (pbuh) but for all man kind, which indicates that the times of Miracles finished and it is time to read and use logic and reason and scriptures, and not waiting miracles and give personal opinions!
Using same words of Jesus (pbuh) in the bible that says that good tree known from its good fruits, why we don’t TEST this fruit!?
Here we go MILLIONS and MILLIONS of victims by Christ:
http://www.truthbeknown.com/victims.htm
After you will show or even print those hundreds of millions of victims by the name of Christ ask him is this is good fruits, does this list make SATAN happy or not!?
Then ask him to bring same list of people killed by the name of Allah (swt) were we can read millions and millions of people killed as the link shows!
Personally after I read what this not Islamic web site shows I prayed and thank Allah (swt) that those chruchs and christians are weak now days!
And Talking about fruits of Christianity why we don’t look at our real life:
1- Millions of atheists in supposed countries that have majority of Christians!
2- About 100 000 women raped in America each year, Google FBI reports!
3- Suicide rates very high
4- Alcoholic people and all accidents, crimes, problems done by it!
SATAN are happy of not!?
Now lets forget all what is written above, and lets talk scriptures but what scriptures:
1- Christians have more then 24 000 gospel not TWO of them INDENTICAL, SATAN or not SATAN!?
2- Catholics have bible consist of 73 books, protestant 66 books, others have 81 book, Mormons have their copy, Jehovah witness have their one, Satan or not Satan!?
I think this more then enough to proof human hands in bible, even old Testament differ then that used by Jews!
This all without even mentioning what is written inside those books, in other words before you begin to open first page, you don’t know which book you use from first place!
See how much work of SATAN!?
Also please ask him to explain to you TRINITY that most Christians don’t understand, and scholars differ about its explanation even in same church and they all point figures to each others and say those who don’t believe in their OPINION will go to HELL!
See PAUL and people like him who founded Christianity that we see now used to point fingers to others and say that their believes came from Satan and that he is the right one, and it looks same with your friend, he talks from his personal opinion and no source or proof to what he says!
Muslims Love Christians but we believe that they are miss guided and this we can easily see when we KNOW, may Allah (swt) guide us all!
It is important to know if he really wants to KNOW and discuss or just attack, because if only attack, believe me they are in very weak position!
May Allah (swt) guide us all!
Peace