why *sigh*

whatever ignorance you see with your family toward females, try not to repeat with your children is the best advise...
It is unfortunate indeed that some still yield to that female infanticide mentality.. but they go about it in a million different ways -- seems indeed some can't get rid of the 'culture' of the jahelya.... when you become of age you should have a candid discussion with your family, if not actually now about your disappointments and expectations .. if you can't, perhaps you can try to change the way you deal with it, and if not at all then in your future avoid your daughters that kind of abuse..

and Allah swt knows best

waslaam 3lykoum wr wb
 
why is it when a daughter upsets her mum, her mum cant get over it, but then a son does the same thing, he is forgiven without further ado!
Well in my fam, my sister is normally forgiven easily andim not hardlyy. But i guess with boys their generally more senseless compared 2 girls so its expect able of a boy to act stupid whereas girls are better behaved

why is it when a girl does something wrong, she is frowned upon, but when a guy does something wrong, he gets a way with a slap on the wrist...
Again i think its because boys are genreally senceless and do stupid stuff. Like I do but would never expect my sister 2 do it you get me?

why i it that when a girl wants something, she has to wait, and no-one helps and makes an effort. but when a son wants something, its done in a blink of an eye

i cant comment on that. But if your saying "I want a new watch" the son gets it, thats probly because his working, making his own money.

why is it that the daughters feelings, needs, wants etc are SO neglected, even though we are the more "emotional" gender, and even though our feelings need to be more taken into consideration...
i dont think the "male" will never understand how "emotinal" a female can get

why is it when you try to do the right thing by people, they take advantage of your kind nature and take advantage in the fact that you are trying to please Allah, and use that against you

Devils?
 
As you, thread starter, can see from this thread that not everyone experiences your thoughts; some find the treating of sons/daughters neutral, some find it opposite and some find it like yours, i.e. it differs from family to family. What you should be asking yourself now is not "why is it that males are more loved and cared for then females", but "why is in my family it that males are more loved and cared for then females".

In all honestly I mean no harm. What I suggest you should do is go and have a chat with your mum/dad about this, and maybe you'll get an answer opposing possible suspicions about sexual preference.
 

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