will a muslimah marry a bald guy?

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salaam all,

of course both men and women prefer good-looking life partners.

but as i am loosing some of my hairs,does that mean i am also loosing the chances of marrying a good-looking muslimah?
 
lol bless! You have as much chance of finding a good-looking wife as a bro with a full head of hair. There are things which are more important to a good muslimah like a man's piety and his struggle for his deen and love for Allah subhana wa ta'ala. Really I mean this from the bottom of my heart.
 
Nope. I doubt girls will go 'hmm the guy has all the characteristics of a good muslim man. but has hardly any hair so cant marry him'. Dont worry, hair means nothing.
 
nope it shouldnt matter, my bro lost some of his hair and he didnt just get one wife but two mashallah, and i would definately not mind a bald partner :rolleyes:
 
You are too funny.. Why do people ask such bizarre questions?..
People don't usually choose their partners based on a full head of hair.. at least it is my hope that they don't...personality, religiosity, the way you treat her I imagine would be cherished above all?

other than that good looks is a state of mind.. There are lots of great looking bald men so just focus on being a good person..

and Allah swt knows best

:w:
 
:sl:HEHEHE!!!!!!!!!!!! When i married my husband he had hair:smile: now he doesn't...........:D so i suppose it doesn't really make any difference cos eventually the hair will fall out!!!!! Then she has no choice does she:eek:!:w:
 
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well...hair are a vital part of a person's beauty, and totally natural to find a person who is beautiful from inside and outside both. I also believe that Allah blesses the believing men & women with many gifts, and life partner is one of them.
Even though one may try to look for the best options but it is certainly Allah who knows what is best for that person..sometimes the life partner we consider unsuitable, Allah tells us that that person may be good for us and vice versa.

Benefits of baldness:

  • No hair loss or dandruff problems.
  • HE can save on haircuts and the tips to barber and may spend that money to buy HER a gift every now & then.
  • HE will never go un-noticed at a party/ social gathering.
  • HE will spend more time with HER than the mirror.
  • Childern will have a playground right infront of their mother's eyes so SHE wont have to worry too much for their safety.
  • Plus...HE would be more loving & caring...no seriously! :D
  • hey I better go and find a new tonic for my hair before its too late :embarrass he he he
LOL


:w:
 
Buy a good hair shaver and turn Yourself into Vin Diesel. Trust me, nowadays girls see bald guys as sexy ones.
 
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baldness may turn some sisters away, and yet other sisters just couldn't care less...
 
just sprinkle olive oil on your head...:)...........and just remember....you might have no or less hair but women age quicker than men so if you marry a sister dont worry by the time your lose your hair,she'll have wrinkles and she will put on weight
 
Amadeus85 said:
Buy a good hair shaver and turn Yourself into Vin Diesel. Trust me, nowadays girls see bald guys as sexy ones.
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My brother lost some his hairs and he often shave the rest into bald. Yes, like Vin Diesel......with glasses.
He married last year, and his wife is a beautiful woman !
 
It wouldn't matter to much to me because when we get old we start loosing our hair anyways. Some women may find it more attractive. I wouldn't worry about it too much unless it was really an issue for you. If you don't feel comfortable with it then try to use something that will help it grow. Make sure you are doing it for yourself and not to please others! Good luck brother!
 
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Amadeus85 said:
Buy a good hair shaver and turn Yourself into Vin Diesel. Trust me, nowadays girls see bald guys as sexy ones.
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actually bald men are indeed considered to be more virile but I don't want to get into endocrinology today -- you find alot of women with what we call 'Male pattern baldness' on the account it is an "estrogen masked (dominant trait)" thus when their hormones are out of whack or when they have reached menopause , they too get bald..

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in some cases it is pathological though and if the underlying problem isn't corrected right away maybe permanent.. (I should add this is one of MANY) reasons for female baldness including of course self-inflicted trichotillomania
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various fungal infections etc..

Perhaps the Question is since more male-pattern baldness is physiological rather than pathological..

Would he be Ok with a sister who is bald?


Something to ponder..

:w:
 
a man would want to stroke his wife's hair but if she is bald like him then someone has to wear a wig
 
I guess that it comes down to, is what you value in your partner?..
for instance if your husband/wife.. had to undergo chemo for cancer, would you find them less of a person for being diseased and having no hair?
 
Hair grows back after chemo so that's only temporary. But I guess it can make a man appreciate his wife more for still appreciating him when he goes bald :p

Anyhow that aside, bald women truly can look beautiful. Think.....
Sinead O'Conner (prob spelt wrong)
Jade Goody
Gail Porter
and lots of others.

What I find is that eastern men are more into the 'long hair is beautiful' mentality. Westerners have a wider perception of what can be beautiful. Bless them!
 
I think in its own way this is a necessary thread.. people need to prioritize what it is they look for in a life partner..

:w:
 
As far as I know many brother once they start to practise Islam either buzz or Shave their heads. Most of them are married now. So I dont know why hair would be such a huge issue. I feel bad for the sister who is losing hair because lets be honest world is less accepting of women who go bald.
 

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