Re: If it was not for the calamities of this life...
You're not thick alhamdulillah.
Have you read this hadeeth before?
Nabi (sallahu alayhi wa sallam) has said:
"A Muslim is never afflicted with any trouble, pain, anxiety, sorrow, harm, grief, upto the extent of a thorn that pricks him, except that Allah expiates his sins thereby."
Re: If it was not for the calamities of this life...
lol sorry, besically I'm saying that Allah only tests those that He loves, calamities are an expiation of sins, ergo....more reward bi'ithnillah!
Was it Muhammad Ash-Shareef who said that Allah (swt) wont give you the same pain twice ...He'll either give it you here or in the hereafter, Wallahu A'lam.
Re: If it was not for the calamities of this life...
That's the beauty of creation isnt it, Allah (swt) gave her strength in some ways that even men couldnt handle ... but then made men emotionally and physically stronger also.
Insha'Allah the sis will explain her quote better.
Re: If it was not for the calamities of this life...
format_quote Originally Posted by MO783
I am abit unsure about the quote "Do not ever accept companionship from women, for their hearts are quick to soften -Abul Otahia, rahimahullah"
What it exactly means as women is a comfort for men, etc. Especially when we get married its a companion for us, someone to share thoughts, love etc
Or Am I totally mis understanding what it means ?
no, it definatley means outside of marriage...do not befriend women outside of marriage (or if your a women, do not befriend a guy) because (as women) our hearts do soften quicker
so basically ...due to our soft hearts we may take a dudes companionship the wrong way
i hope im making sense here
btw that quote isnt meant to be a diss to women (if anyone was taking it that way).
...desperate for husnul-khitaam...
please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.
Re: If it was not for the calamities of this life...
yes i think i am starting to understand the quote now. It is true outside marraige if they take a guy for companionship they can get hurt easily as well.
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