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    is this permissible.

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    Is it permissble for a girl/girls family to look into a potential husband/his family,and all that jazz for her daughter, WITHOUT the knowledge of the girls WALI.

    For eg girl is interested in guy, girl talks to female family members (eg mum, sisters), they talk to others (just people in general) to gather info about the guy/his family, etc WITHOUT the knowledge of the girls WALI.
    is this permissible.

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    Re: is this permissible.

    asalam alaikum wr wb,

    Islam permits asking about the individual's character and behavior, and looking out for your best interest in general. It doesn't matter who does this or whether anyone objects to it. The fact is that it's allowed.


    wa alaikum asalam wr wb.
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    Re: is this permissible.

    any1 else :sunny:
    is this permissible.

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    Re: is this permissible.



    Can u make it a bit clear?
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    Re: is this permissible.

    basically im wondering if my wali has to know that im 'researching' about him.

    i mean obviously im gna tell my wali eventually, but does he have to know that im looking into his background, etc
    is this permissible.

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    Re: is this permissible.

    Uh...what's a Wali? :P
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    Re: is this permissible.

    format_quote Originally Posted by Ayoub View Post
    Uh...what's a Wali? :P
    Guardian/protector, her rents..
    is this permissible.

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    Re: is this permissible.

    format_quote Originally Posted by anonymous View Post
    Is it permissble for a girl/girls family to look into a potential husband/his family,and all that jazz for her daughter, WITHOUT the knowledge of the girls WALI.

    For eg girl is interested in guy, girl talks to female family members (eg mum, sisters), they talk to others (just people in general) to gather info about the guy/his family, etc WITHOUT the knowledge of the girls WALI.
    I think you should look up in Islamic books for this kind of knowledge.Or a more practical solution is to look at http://www.questionsonislam.com/
    You can ask this site anything about Islamic living.
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