SubhanALLAH...one of my good friends,she Muslim right,she told me she wants to change her Relgion to Christianity
SubhanALLAh..i dnt no wut to say
what should i tell her...i tryed to act calm so i wouldnt scare her away...i even put "lol" in the txt msgs
but i want to help her,Of course only ALLAH (SWA) can guide her..thse who ALLAH(SWA) guides theres Know one to misguide,and those who ALLAH (SWA) leades astray theres Know one to guide them...i no no but can i sit back n just relax,act as if theres nothing wrong
SubhanALLAH...wut if really does,i have no doubts she wnt
so wut should i do,jus like with kidnaps,first 24 hours are critical..the shaydaan has kidnaped her,SubahanALLAH may ALLAH (SWA) guide her
i cant even react right now,im confsed,i have no direct feeling at the moment i jus no i have to do something fast
any advice
JazakALLAh Khair
Verily, His Command, when He intends a thing, is only that He says to it, Be! and it is.
“Surely, in disbelief are they who say that Allaah is the Messiah, son of Maryam (Mary)” [al-Maa'idah 5:17]
“And they worship besides Allaah things that harm them not, nor profit them, and they say: ‘These are our intercessors with Allaah.’ Say: ‘Do you inform Allaah of that which He knows not in the heavens and on the earth?’ Glorified and Exalted is He above all that which they associate as partners (with Him)!” [Yoonus 10:18]
“Surely, disbelievers are those who said: ‘Allaah is the third of the three (in a Trinity).’ But there is no Ilaah (god) (none who has the right to be worshipped) but One Ilaah (God —Allaah). And if they cease not from what they say, verily, a painful torment will befall on the disbelievers among them” [al-Maa'idah 5:73]
O people of the Scripture (Christians)! Do not exceed the limits in your religion, nor say of Allaah aught but the truth. The Messiah ‘Eesa (Jesus), son of Maryam (Mary), was (no more than) a Messenger of Allaah and His Word, (‘Be’ — and he was) which He bestowed on Maryam (Mary) and a spirit (Rooh) created by Him; so believe in Allaah and His Messengers. Say not: ‘Three (trinity)!’ Cease! (it is) better for you” [al-Nisa’ 4:171]
That they said (in boast), "We killed Christ Jesus the son of Mary, the Messenger of Allah";- but they killed him not, nor crucified him, but so it was made to appear to them, and those who differ therein are full of doubts, with no (certain) knowledge, but only conjecture to follow, for of a surety they killed him not:-
Nay, Allah raised him up unto Himself; and Allah is Exalted in Power, Wise;- [An-Nisa 4:157:158]
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And verily for everything that a slave loses there is a substitute, but the one who loses Allah will never find anything to replace Him.” [Related by Ibn al-Qayyim in ad-Dâ' wad-Dawâ Fasl 49]
First Of All Stay Calm Sis , Just Talk with her Again And
Try To Understand Why She Wanna convert.....
And as for the onewho fears standing in front of His Lord and restrainsthe soul from impure evil desires and lusts, verily, Paradise will be his abode [79:40-41]
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And verily for everything that a slave loses there is a substitute, but the one who loses Allah will never find anything to replace Him.” [Related by Ibn al-Qayyim in ad-Dâ' wad-Dawâ Fasl 49]
but i jus texted her...i think texting is better,avoid silent moments,n we can say anything to eachother
so i jus told her that i wasnt goin to go crazy,hus told her 1.5 million reverts after 9/11,n iasked her wut exactly do christians believe..then ill go from there,cuz here in the u.s Muslim youth jus see the "freedom" oin christianity,they see that theres no limitations so they think its better
man,if they only new
i want to tell her everything...cuz i think its jusr ignorance..i think if she really new then she wouldnt do this,plus she said she was brought up in Islam not really knowing much besides Prayer n lil duas like "Alhamduliah"
ok well see
plz Pray for this sister Insh ALLAH
Verily, His Command, when He intends a thing, is only that He says to it, Be! and it is.
eh.. it is one of the signs of the end of the world as I see it
a person awakens a kaffir and sleeps a Muslim and one sleeps a Muslim and awakens a kaffir.. I doubt her decision is based on reason.. I can understand wanting to convert to Judaism, agnosticism but christianity is beyond rationality.. to me it is in the same ball park as scientology....
I'd totally ignore it.. she's probably telling you this to irritate you..
Text without context is pretext If your opponent is of choleric temperament, seek to irritate him
[QUOTE=Skye Ephémérine;992418]eh.. it is one of the signs of the end of the world as I see it
a person awakens a kaffir and sleeps a Muslim and one sleeps a Muslim and awakens a kaffir.. sister...wut do u mean by this...can u explain sis
I doubt her decision is based on reason..
i think its jus ignorance,she's never had proper training from wut i see
I can understand wanting to convert to Judaism, agnosticism but christianity is beyond rationality.. to me it is in the same ball park as scientology....
undestood...especially since you can prove your point by asking to different christians wut they belive n theyll tell u totaly differrent things,have them argue...mission acomplished
I'd totally ignore it.. she's probably telling you this to irritate you..
i cant ignore sister,r u kidding me...we're close..not attached but enough for me to care,plus i met her as a Muslim therefore i should treat her as a Muslim right?
she hasnt made a decides yet,i think its jus a thought cuz i think her dads christians but she lives with her mom
i met her as a Muslim sister and that how i want to leave her Insh ALLAH,i cant jus let it slide...i couldnt imagine sitting n talking to someone who has let Islam,Astagfurulah...SUbhanALLAH its all in ALLAH (SWA)'S Hands...must leave it to him but i can jus let this slide
its jus not that easy sis
but JazakALLAH Khair,really appreciate ur take...hope i didnt come as being rude
May ALLAH (SWA) guide as all to HIM (SWA),Insh ALLAH.Ameen
Verily, His Command, when He intends a thing, is only that He says to it, Be! and it is.
If the youth wants freedom, then why do they need Christianty? Seems to me that they only want an excuse, it doesn't matter what excuse, just give it to them!
Maybe it would be OK for you to make her realize what is she searching for. "Freedom" which is relative, or her Lord's pleasure? I mean, wouldn't it be freedom for us to be able to steal? Would that "freedom" lead to anything good?
How old is she? I'd say she's just doing it for attention and needs slap to wake up her up.
Tell her she knows nothing of Christianity and not to just follow blindly simply because the naive girls duas haven't been accepted or that she thinks Allah swt is 'forsaking her' That's why you get little whiny kids threatening to leave Islam, because they're not getting their way.
That and that she needs to learn more about Islam. Her lack of knowledge has led her to this hasty remark she's made.
Never will she find happiness after abandoning islam.
“And He provides for him from (sources) he never could imagine. And if any one puts his trust in Allah, sufficient is (Allah) for him. For Allah will surely accomplish his purpose: verily, for all things has Allah appointed a due proportion.”[65:3]
ok guys...this mite be a stupid question...but is this backbiting,cuz i am talking about her while putting her business out there for all of you to comment,weather you comments are good or bad towards her
i think i didnt explain it right
i belive im the only who she told...she didnt bring it uo i did.i asked her wut was different about me,n then i sadi ive been told ive become more relgious Alhamdulilah and then she said she wants to change her relgion n asked to wut n she said chritianity
i no this grl n believe me she;s not the type to try t o get attention n if she was trying to get attention then she wouldve told everyone else n she hasnt.like i said i think im the only who knows,probably not even her family..from wut ive seen she's not practicing so its not like she weres a niqaab n all of a sudden wantsto leave Islam
dnt get me wrong im not in any way trying to stick up for her,for if she does change her relgion i wouldnt even look at here again but i jus think yall didnt get wut i wa trying to say
Insh ALLAH ima try my best to get he rthat book,from wut i know she's a good person whose confused
i feel so guilty defending her and bringing her up,so again,is this backbiting cuz i know she wouldnt want me bring her up on this board
is she was to leave Islam May ALLAH (SWA) frobid it,would she be able to come back,like i heard once u leave Islam theres no comming back
ok JazakALLAH Khair n like the brother stated,Dua is the best thing to do
May ALLAH (SWA) keep us firmly on th epath to Jannatul-Fardows,Insh ALLAH,Ameen
Verily, His Command, when He intends a thing, is only that He says to it, Be! and it is.
It's not back biting. You didn't mention her name. We don't know who she is. If this were back biting, how else would you ask for advice to help her?
May ALLAH (SWA) keep us firmly on th epath to Jannatul-Fardows,Insh ALLAH,Ameen
Ameen
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Ps please don't say InshaAllah in a dua^:X
It's like not having full trust in Allah swt fulling your request.
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“And He provides for him from (sources) he never could imagine. And if any one puts his trust in Allah, sufficient is (Allah) for him. For Allah will surely accomplish his purpose: verily, for all things has Allah appointed a due proportion.”[65:3]
It's not back biting. You didn't mention her name. We don't know who she is. If this were back biting, how else would you ask for advice to help her?
Ameen
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Ps please don't say InshaAllah in a dua^:X
It's like not having full trust in Allah swt fulling your request.
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Sister is Right ,
I was Just Gooin To say That ! When one of you supplicates, he should not say, ”O' Allah, forgive me if You will,” but be firm in asking and make the desire great, for what Allah gives is nothing great for Him. (Muslim)
And as for the onewho fears standing in front of His Lord and restrainsthe soul from impure evil desires and lusts, verily, Paradise will be his abode [79:40-41]
It's not back biting. You didn't mention her name. We don't know who she is. If this were back biting, how else would you ask for advice to help her?
Ameen
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Ps please don't say InshaAllah in a dua^:X
It's like not having full trust in Allah swt fulling your request.
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i guess ur right
really? ive been doing that forever but no ones ever said nothin,i dnt understand sis,SubhanALLAH ive been saying it in every dua weather wriiten or after Salah...Im jus saying if ALLAH (SWA) wills...y cant u say it..not questioning it jsu wanting to know...
JazakALLAH Khair
Verily, His Command, when He intends a thing, is only that He says to it, Be! and it is.
Sister is Right ,
I was Just Gooin To say That ! When one of you supplicates, he should not say, ”O' Allah, forgive me if You will,” but be firm in asking and make the desire great, for what Allah gives is nothing great for Him. (Muslim)
ooooooo u too...can on eof yall plz explain,im ignorant wen it comes to this..willing to learn though
Verily, His Command, when He intends a thing, is only that He says to it, Be! and it is.
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