Married people.

**anonymous** · 10-31-2008

As men and women are equal what if its the woman who wants intimacy and her husband refuses.

Narrarted Abu Huraira

Allah's Apostle (Pbuh) said, " If a husband calls his wife to his bed (i.e. to have sexual relations) and she refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the angels will curse her till morning." (Sahih Al-Bukhari Vol. 4 Hadith No. 460 & Sahih Muslim Vol. 2 Hadith No. 3368)

Narrated Abu Huraira

The Messenger of Allah (swt) said: By him in whose hand is my life, when a man calls his wife to his bed, and she does not respond, the One Who is in the heaven is displeased with her untill he (her husband) is pleased with her. (Sahih Muslim Vol. 2 Hadith No. 3367)

Does the same apply for the husband and if so references please?

**Mikayeel** · 10-31-2008

Thread approved

**AnonymousPoster** · 10-31-2008

I would assume the women has equall rights. I do think though that the man is going to be calling the women most of the time. However i was always interested in this question

**Zahida** · 10-31-2008

I always thought this should be mutual consent......... The Quran does teach us about how the man should lovingly approach his wife and not just lookat her as a *** object.

Of course women have the same desires as men. Just giving you an opinion really can't answer you from an islamic point of view. However maybe you could talk to a scholar about this?........

Originally Posted by AnonymousGender

I would assume the women has equall rights. I do think though that the man is going to be calling the women most of the time. However i was always interested in this question