umm just wanna ask you bout.. soft voice.. like i normally like to soft my voice weather its a girl and a boy.... espeically when i laugh when am shying atomatically my voice changes to soft.. i dunt knw why. does that mean i done zina of speaking?
to be honest i dont if thats part of zina. is it???
umm just wanna ask you bout.. soft voice.. like i normally like to soft my voice weather its a girl and a boy.... espeically when i laugh when am shying atomatically my voice changes to soft.. i dunt knw why. does that mean i done zina of speaking?
to be honest i dont if thats part of zina. is it???
ok so if u do it intentionally rite,sometimes it just comes out soft.
Allah made everyone different thats what makes them special,so no matter what ppl say just remember you're SPECIAL!! "You are with the one you love"
Nem0
“O wives of the Prophet! You are not like any other women. If you keep your duty (to Allaah), then be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease (of hypocrisy, or evil desire for adultery) should be moved with desire, but speak in an honourable manner” [al-Ahzaab 33:32]
Allah made everyone different thats what makes them special,so no matter what ppl say just remember you're SPECIAL!! "You are with the one you love"
Nem0
someone correct me if i'm wrong, but i understand 'be not soft in speech' as in the words that are spoken and not the actual sound of the voice itself.
after all as some sisters agree we cant change our voice but we can watch how we speak so as not to give the wrong impression. i.e. not be flirtatious and talk unashamedly. If someone is doing that it'll giv the wrong impression anyway even if they sound like a horse.
Allah didn't say you have to speak rough and hard"but speak in an honourable manner” If you don't try to soften your voice then there's nothing wrong Insha'Allah.
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lol@growling.. no that just sound rude and aggressive and no one would marry ya! lol
lol, i dont really growl !!.although...i have um ....this really bad habit of trying to smile pleasantly just to put other people at ease, and this behaviour doesnt chnage when i have to speak to brothers, i dont mean to behave in the wrong way, but i need to learn to be a little less cheerful! and learn to look like this when speaking to brothers > lol.(that should give um nightmares!)
My heart, so precious,
I won't trade for a hundred thousand souls.
Your one smile takes it for free.Rumi
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it must look preet scary especially if you're talking to a bro with your gaze lowered and have a big cheshire cat grin on your face. *shivers*
it does take practice to change old habits though. I was taught in school to make eye-contact when talking to ppl. so when i found out abt lowering the gaze i found myself struggling to tear my eyes off the broz face i was talking to. what was more embarrassing was that a bro would have his eyes fixed on his feet when mine would be on him. astaghfirullah! but like i said, practice makes perfect. I'm well in control of my peepers now
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Mz always gets it right!!
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, but it all goes wrong
i get it now.
lol.(that should give um nightmares!)
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