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    hi/salaamalakum

    I know this may sound abit stupid but i was wondering if a person wanted a beautiful muslim wife would it be best to look for one or just rely on Allah by doing Duah for one?
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    Re: Some advice

    Allahuma urzuqni zawjah/zawj taqiyah naqiyah baarah wari3ah tukrimuni fee deeni wa dunyay walaa tu' theeni fee deeni wa dunyay

    Oh Allah grant me a wife/husband who is pious, pure, virtuous, devout, who will be generous to me in this world and the next and who will not harm me in this world and the next.

    اللهم ارزقني زوجة تقية نقية بارة ورعة تكرمني في ديني ودنياي ولا تؤذيني في دينيولا دنياي
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    Re: Some advice

    u cant only make dua, If you make dua she wont fall into your arms from the sky.

    You have to be realistic, Rely on Allah, make dua, but u gotta tighten ur camel too. As rasululah ( saw) said.

    That goes for anything, studying, work etc.

    May ALlah grant u wats best ameen.
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    Re: Some advice

    format_quote Originally Posted by Yanoorah View Post
    u cant only make dua, If you make dua she wont fall into your arms from the sky.
    lol

    Ask around the community insha'Allah
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    format_quote Originally Posted by Amatul Wadud View Post
    Allahuma urzuqni zawjah/zawj taqiyah naqiyah baarah wari3ah tukrimuni fee deeni wa dunyay walaa tu' theeni fee deeni wa dunyay

    Oh Allah grant me a wife/husband who is pious, pure, virtuous, devout, who will be generous to me in this world and the next and who will not harm me in this world and the next.

    اللهم ارزقني زوجة تقية نقية بارة ورعة تكرمني في ديني ودنياي ولا تؤذيني في دينيولا دنياي
    Gosh i wish i knew this dua before but i guess didnt look hard enough and now well now its too late
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    format_quote Originally Posted by AnonymousGender View Post
    Gosh i wish i knew this dua before but i guess didnt look hard enough and now well now its too late
    AssalamuAlaykum

    Are you the thread starter? If you're not...It's never to late to ask Allah (swt) to bless your marriage (Assuming you're married already)

    Our Lord! Grant that our spouses and our offspring be a comfort to our eyes, and give us the grace to lead those who are conscious of You. (25:74)

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    Re: Some advice

    make dua

    keep being a best a muslim as you can be.

    let people know you wish to get married.


    and i think you'll be fine inshAllah
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    Re: Some advice

    You mean a physically beautiful wife? I really don't think Allah would answer such duas.. physical beauty means nothing in Islam..
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    Re: Some advice

    format_quote Originally Posted by Argamemnon View Post
    You mean a physically beautiful wife? I really don't think Allah would answer such duas.. physical beauty means nothing in Islam..
    but you can make dua' that you marry someone who, everytime you look at her, you feel pleased inside.

    That is the qualities of what is described to be one of the greatest things of this dunya in a hadith.
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