is it haram for ladies/girls to go out with their girlfriends?

**idk** · 05-02-2009

jus wondering...

is it haram to go shopping, eat out, weddings, masjid halaqas, or maybe just out with your friends?

Bearing in mind theyre muslim and all girls?

oh, and i dont mean this jus for teens...

I mean for all women, teens and married ladies too.

salams y'all

**crayon** · 05-03-2009

Not sure what gave you the idea that it might be haram?..
As long as you're doing halal stuff (ie. not going clubbing, etc.), and not doing it so often you end up neglecting other important areas of your life and religion, then there's no reason it would be haram, inshaAllah.

**noorseeker** · 05-03-2009

Do sisters need a mahram to travel, or have we become too relaxed on that issue

**IbnAbdulHakim** · 05-03-2009

shes testing the crazy factor of this forum me thinks

ie she wants to see whos gonna jump out sayin:

"HARAM HARAM HARAM HAAARAAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

**idk** · 05-03-2009

Lool I Got a few people in mind....

Nahh kidding seriousely I dunno maybe cuz some men jus never let their wives/daughters out. They either dont trust them or just want them in all day, cuz its 'haram'.

**i love allah** · 05-03-2009

i dont think so

**IbnAbdulHakim** · 05-03-2009

Originally Posted by idk

Lool I Got a few people in mind....

Nahh kidding seriousely I dunno maybe cuz some men jus never let their wives/daughters out. They either dont trust them or just want them in all day, cuz its 'haram'.

i wouldnt want my sister/wife constantly goin out with girls unless they're pious and veeery good influence. (constant being 4-5 times a week)

aint saying its haram, just sayin what im comfy wiv

Assalamu Alaikum

**idk** · 05-03-2009

Originally Posted by Fighting4Iman

i wouldnt want my sister/wife constantly goin out with girls unless they're pious and veeery good influence. (constant being 4-5 times a week)

aint saying its haram, just sayin what im comfy wiv

Assalamu Alaikum

Yh see thats personal choice, but is there any ruling in the deen that says its haram.

P.s why not ? Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

**IbnAbdulHakim** · 05-03-2009

^ lol she can be absent for months, as long as im sure she's still straight in the deen.

never EVER undestimate the affect of bad influence sis, thats why i said... long as im sure they are pious/good influence.

Assalamu Alaikum

**ardianto** · 05-03-2009

Is it haram for a girl to go out with her girlfriend ?.....Of course not.

Why do you ask ?. It because your parent always prevent you to go out with your friend ?
Ooohh, young lady. Maybe that's because you go out with your wrong friend.
There are two type of friends.
First, good and right friend. That is a friend who has good behaviour.
Second, bad and wrong friend. That is a friend who has stupid behaviour and can bring you to the wrong way.
Remember, select your friend.

**ahmed_indian** · 05-03-2009

its not haram that girls/women go out of their homes for necessity (with proper clothes, of course).

but in Islam, they are adviced to stay at home if going out is not needed.

http://www.albalagh.net/qa/girls_nightout_masjid.shtml

**idk** · 05-03-2009

Lol My parents never prevent me if they know the girls I am going out with are good .. and of course they have a right lol.

But For a little while I had good muslim friends until I discovered they only go to the mosque for reasons other than its purpose...

**ardianto** · 05-04-2009

Originally Posted by idk

Lol My parents never prevent me if they know the girls I am going out with are good .. and of course they have a right lol.

But For a little while I had good muslim friends until I discovered they only go to the mosque for reasons other than its purpose...

Hmmm, I think your friends are type of girls who dont like to go out and feel comfort when stay in home. I know some girls like them.

**ahmed_indian** · 05-04-2009

Originally Posted by ardianto

Hmmm, I think your friends are type of girls who dont like to go out and feel comfort when stay in home. I know some girls like them.

masha'allah bro, still there are girls who prefer to be at home.

may Allah bless them

and me also with a wife like them.

**idk** · 05-04-2009

Originally Posted by ardianto

Hmmm, I think your friends are type of girls who dont like to go out and feel comfort when stay in home. I know some girls like them.

No, lol the opposite. They hardly stayed in, and wanted me to come everywhere with them which wasnt possible cuz wen i hung around with them my parents noticed i changed. Im just lazy, thats why sometimes i prefer stayin at home as long as theres a gd movie and loads of yummy food lol.

But i do like going out once in a while (at the weekend).
Thats not much, is it?

Salams.

**Sahabiyaat** · 05-04-2009

i think if your working, you wont really have time to go out all, except on the weekends which should then be reserved for your family.

However if your hubbys the only one with a job, and your bored staring at the walls, then i think the husband should check out her friends (NOT IN THAT WAY!!, just to assess if their not bad influence), and the give her permission to go out with them now and then.

**Strzelecki** · 05-05-2009

Originally Posted by nightstar

Do sisters need a mahram to travel, or have we become too relaxed on that issue

What distance constitutes 'travel'?

**Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн** · 05-05-2009

Sometimes I wonder why some bros think the woman should be inside 24/7, secluded...hmm. You try starin at the walls all day

lol.

Anyway I've been in the habit of being home since day one. For me it's uni then home all the time, unless my family goes out...never done hung outs except once in high school...and only for like 2 hrs max..

**ragdollcat1982** · 05-05-2009

I go out frequently while my son is at school. I do volunteer work at a local crisis pregnancy center two days a week. I have been career oriented until I had my son 6 years ago. I plan on going back to school next year and finish my degree. I dont know if I will return to the work force, but at least it would give me some sense of accomplishment.