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    Let me start off my saying that I am a righteous person.im GOD fearing and watch what I say and do for the most part. When I seen, whether it’s major or minor I quickly ask for forgiveness and feel guilty.
    I’ve been having issues with pronouncing the letter “ra” in the Arabic alphabet. This was a problem form about a year ago but it disappeared but now it back again
    I don’t know what it is. I can’t say the letter “ra” without stuttering badly or sometimes it doesn’t come out. It’s as if my tongue refuses to meet the top of my gums so I can say it. Prayer has become hard and Dua has been made difficult. I can’t say the Fatiha right and can’t even say ALLAHO Akbar to start my Salah without great difficulty. I continue with my Prayer even though I know I didn’t say it right because I know I tried my best. I can’t say Rabi in my dua or anything that has a “ra” in it which is basically everything

    Now I’m wondering if this is a test or a punishment. Maybe ALLAH Subhan Wa Ta’la is punishing me so I can suffer and be rewarded for the difficulties I have to encounter. i don’t know!!! I’m extremely frustrated!!!

    Ive always been the type to get up and make Wadu before the Prayer call and now I wait until the Prayer call has passed to get up and make Wadu.
    I cant concentrate on my Salah at all because im to busy trying to pronounce this letter that refuses to come out. My Salah have been week to the point where it means almost nothing. I try my best but its taking a toile on me.I pray and have no fulfillment anymore. It’s like meaningless because the entire time I’m in front of my LORD I’m stuttering and completely frustrated

    what i going on?

    have you ever experience this or known of someone who has?

    what should i do.



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    JazakALLAH Khair for all the help.i would like to know how to get better in the mean time.i can i just focus in Salah.the friend of yours who went through this,did he/she get bettter soon? did they suffer alot?

    what did the shiek say about me be completely silent iin salah? is it allowed
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    May Allah ease your pain. My fathers friend stammers also and he has no problems with prayer,if you have any questions on his experience you can ask me and I will ask him to give me the answers. InshAllah we can work something out.
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    JazakALLAH Khair for all the help.i would like to know how to get better in the mean time.i can i just focus in Salah.the friend of yours who went through this,did he/she get bettter soon? did they suffer alot?

    what did the shiek say about me be completely silent iin salah? is it allowed

    The 2 people i am working with are at a much more advanced stage then you from what i can see.
    There issues are very serious but Alhumodlilah we are seeing improvement.

    Like i said in my earlier post sister i spoke to 2 sheiks and they both said that you can be completely silent in the salah. Its perfectly fine to do so.
    May Allah make it easy on you.
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    Brother do you mean you work with or you are a caretaker of those people? Just confused.
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    format_quote Originally Posted by Alpha Jr View Post
    Brother do you mean you work with or you are a caretaker of those people? Just confused.
    My profession is that i work in Mental health.

    The 2 people that i am talking about 1 is very close to me and the other is a brother who i know.
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    Saalam Alykum

    This is a little something i am putting together for people that i come across who suffer from waswaas.

    It a list of rulings that apply.

    Inshallah if anyone can benifit from this then please do so.

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