I hope i can have some help, i want to try and understand a certain situation....
If you apologise to someone about something you should have done for them (you know you should have done that thing because it is nice and the right thing to do)
and they tell you theres no reason or need for you to have done that thing anyway...what does it mean?
Do they simply not care? Are they upset? Any ideas...please share?
Thank you
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^ Yep it depends on who said it, their relations to you, age and how serious the 'nice' thing is that you should have done. Can't exactly generalise it all into one situation.
The believer has four characteristics: if he is afflicted by any misfortune, he remains patient and steadfast. If he is given anything, he is grateful. If he speaks , he speaks the truth. If he passes judgment on any issue,he is just .
^ Probs cos guys are lacking.. brainwise and can't comprehend the amazing way females think.
N e ways back to the real problem, why dont you just ask them if they have a problem? (but in a nice way)
The believer has four characteristics: if he is afflicted by any misfortune, he remains patient and steadfast. If he is given anything, he is grateful. If he speaks , he speaks the truth. If he passes judgment on any issue,he is just .
Wel it depends on their expressions, they could be disappointed if they were expecting it, hence its ok... normaly women do that, they expect small thins and if you dont do it they get disappointed and then pretend it didnt bother them...
Or if the facial/language expression was indifferent then it means they don't care and wouldnt ahve thought of you doing it anyway...
or if the facia expressions were girm means theya re upset beacuse you didn't do it...
Hence the important question is, how did they say it to you when they said it there was no need anyway!!!!
If the person does not care they genuinely would not feel upset.
What Id like to know is can the above imply that the person is not caring towards the friend who was suppose to do the nice thing.
or does it only mean they are not caring about the action being done or not.
Whats more likely ...given the expression and tone was neutral and measured.
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