Okay since I'm the youngest, everyone seems to think that they can yell and blame everything on me, even though that I haven't done anything. My older relatives and my older siblings get me into trouble when I really haven't done anything wrong and usually over trivial matters. My parents don't believe me. .___.
It is getting rather annoying and disruptive to my daily activities. Most of the time, I don't even know why I am getting into trouble. When I was younger, I was able to tolerate it but now I got a headache.
Is there actually a prayer where I can avoid getting into trouble in the first place even when I haven't done anything wrong?
I was looking at myself talking to myself and I realized this conversation...I was having with myself looking at myself was a conversation with myself that I needed to have with myself.
You're the youngest? The youngest is always spoiled. It's the oldest (like me lol) that have it the hardest. Meh.<_<
As for a specific prayer.. i don't know of one. Usually the way I get out of trouble is by smiling like this: . The only problem is, is that over the years, my parents have become immune to it; it doesn't work as well as it used to. So now I use my smooth talking to confuse them and make them believe they're elated with my behavior rather than the fact that I was just about to get grounded for a month. Works all the time... Well, most of the time, anyway.
As for a specific prayer.. i don't know of one. Usually the way I get out of trouble is by smiling like this: .
Hahaha that might work...
Thanx sis.
I was looking at myself talking to myself and I realized this conversation...I was having with myself looking at myself was a conversation with myself that I needed to have with myself.
play the blame game it was him it was her no no no if that doesnt work tell them you were put under some sort of pressure from some one else you know what i mean brother
crayon ur so rightttttttt its eldest one who is THE MAIN CULPRIT little ones have it easy but then lil ones always say we have it hard for us.
me i always like to create a fight between my two lil sisters just for fun its funny when they fight you know the kiddos fight.i miss my sisters
you dont...hopefully they grow out of it...
but either way, just be patient with it...people go through tests and trials, only for it to strengthen their personality and make them better people.
Last edited by Ummu Sufyaan; 07-26-2009 at 10:08 AM.
...desperate for husnul-khitaam...
please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.
a while back, I made a club called YSA. Younger Sibling Association. We fought for our rights.
But as the post above said, we grow out of it. But I still get blamed on sometimes. I feel you, bro. We're on the same boat. *heaves a sigh* maybe one day, our future YSA-ers will get the rights we've been fighting for, for the last 2000 years.
'Cept not my future children (inshallah). Boy, I do NOT want my children to give the sand trouble I do to my parents. :X
I'm the middle child and everyone's punching kit. even my younger sister fights with me. I'm close to my mom and so if she scolds me even for something small, I feel bad. but at the end of the day, its ok. You live to fight another day brother
If Allah helps you, none can overcome you; and if He forsakes you, who is there after Him that can help you? And in Allah (Alone) let believers put their trust.
Surah Ale Imran : 160
It was narrated that Anas ibn Maalik (may Allaah be pleased with him) said:
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allaah be upon him) climbed up Uhud, accompanied by Abu Bakr, ‘Umar and ‘Uthmaan, and the mountain shook with them. He struck it with his foot and said: “Stand firm, O Uhud, for there is no one on you but a Prophet or a Siddeeq or two martyrs.”
Narrated by al-Bukhaari (3483)
Allah (Subhaanahu Wa Taala) does not inspire seeking forgiveness in a slave whom he wishes to punish.
play the blame game it was him it was her no no no if that doesnt work tell them you were put under some sort of pressure from some one else you know what i mean brother
crayon ur so rightttttttt its eldest one who is THE MAIN CULPRIT little ones have it easy but then lil ones always say we have it hard for us.
me i always like to create a fight between my two lil sisters just for fun its funny when they fight you know the kiddos fight.i miss my sisters
pray to ALLAH to give me strength AMEEN
*sighs* Only have one sibling. After he got married, I'm a lonely camper. You miss it afterwards, but sort of get annoyed at the time. I savor the moments I have though. We still do joke, sometimes argue.
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. The only problem is, is that over the years, my parents have become immune to it; it doesn't work as well as it used to. So now I use my smooth talking to confuse them and make them believe they're elated with my behavior rather than the fact that I was just about to get grounded for a month. Works all the time... Well, most of the time, anyway.
even my younger sister fights with me. I'm close to my mom and so if she scolds me even for something small, I feel bad. but at the end of the day, its ok. You live to fight another day brother 
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