I have desperately been searching for an answer to this question and can’t find anything that makes it clear. Islam q&a. askimam, I’ve searched the lot but nothing gives me a straight answer, they just go into this long story instead of getting to the point.
All I want to know is, when people say, ‘Dua can change qadar’ to what extent is that? I know some things can’t be changed, like the day we will die can’t change. But, things like who we’re supposed to marry? If we ever meant to get married or not? If you want a certain thing which your not supposed to get, but by making dua you get it? Even if it wasn’t written for you?
How exactly does it work? I am extremely confused and frustrated at the moment. Please don’t post any links, if you know the answer, just post your thoughts. Thanks in advance.
However, if you are praying for something that Allah thinks it's bad for you, such as "oh Allah make so-and-so my wife/husband" then that's really a bad du'a you know.
No, he's just messing around with you, he's got nothing better to do...
I hope this is some sort of joke because I was not messing around.
It is vain to come up with a du'a like "oh Allah make so-and-so my husband/wife".
Instead what one should do is say "oh Allah, if this person is good for me then guide him/her to me, and if he/she is bad for me then keep her/him away from me".
This way one is not seen as shallow by Allah.
This is getting very frustrating now. Why does people's good advice, good lectures, good books, good actions etc, only have a temporary effect? Then you begin to feel the same as yesterday.
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