Question regarding muslim women.

I'm not getting mad, I'm completely calm, and who said I was talking about your post directly?? I don't recall saying you were being rude?? and sorry if you found my post rude you obviously understood it wrongly.

I just meant it doesn't take 10 people or however much it was to point out he made a generalization. Or should I say repeat the word generalization lol.

^ I didn't say the bro got offended by it, he could be laughing and playing the game "count how many times you see the word generalization" lol

^ what should she give credit for, all i've read is the word "generalization" over and over, it's like the number 1 word in this thread, it doesn't require 10 people to point out she made a generalization does it.

Gimme a break will ya. I duno bout anyone else but I wasnt trying to scrutinize, I just thought it was odd and unfair. THat doesnt mean I dont understand why he is the way he is. And I didnt blame him I only advised. I didnt repeat the word either. I said it once nicely and gave examples why its not the case.

Ook well I'd like to apologize anyway in case I may have said anything wrong, that includes u too

Each of us is human. As a result that which we see or experience is what we see as our world. If we only know two women and they cheat on their husbands in our view all women do. That is not a wrong view it is simply incomplete. None of us have a true picture of the whole world each of us has a limited window through which we perceive our world. With time and searching we can find more windows and expand our views, but we are still limited to our own view points.

By expressing our view points we can elicit the views of other people and through them we expand our views. It is far better we speak of what angers us and learn from others how wide or narrow our own views are. But, we must always remember that no matter how broad our views are, they are still limited and while correct for what we see they are not complete as what we do not see may be the exact opposite.

Wen people stop fearing Allah
they lose their Imaan
they forget Akhirah
everything bad becomes easy.

This is for men & women, shaytan does not discriminate.

and to add do that, don't generalize LOOL j/k

i have seen alot of stuff like this happening wife is cheating and husband is cheating iswell but in my view it starts from some were and there is a good reason why it happens and most of this kinda stuff happens in none muslim countrys but in my view women has its own needs and that should be done and some question still remains as why?

1. stop allowing yourselves to be slaves to culture

we don't have a choice. "marry so and so or else i'll boot you out of home and you'll have no where to go" what else is one meant to do?

2. no excuse for men to do this either, especially when there is the permission for up to 4 wives

or the command to lower your gaze. (not to disagree with you on the permissibility of 4 wives)

i see plenty of this going on too. it seems to be a western-muslimah phenomenon though. allahu alam.

what do you mean

format_quote Originally Posted by limitless

For the record sis, you shouldn't reply when you have anger.

even if i was replying in anger, it doesn't make my point less valid.

I never said men don't cheat.

but you weren't exactly willing to point it out either.

I don't have an ego problem, but you certainly seem like you do. I never said men don't cheat. Your going way off topic and attacking me, think before you say something sister.

i didn't say you did. i was speaking generally. and attacking? look whose talking.

I think we can all agree both Muslim husbands and Muslim wives do some bad things. : o