How to divorce a christian wife islamically ?

consult a scholar inshAllaah

If you were married legally according to the law of your country, then you should also get divorced according to the law.

Even if Islamically that wasn't necessary, it would only be fair on your wife, to enable her to seek a new relationship and get married again ...

Is the desire for divorce mutual?

Greetings and peace be with you AnonymousGender;

Are you seeking a divorce because of religious differences, or are there other reasons?

In the spirit of praying for an inner peace that surpasses all understanding

eric

if she had reverted after the nikkah then yes you have to seek the islamic divorce. its an obligation on every muslim woman that she has to wait 3months before she can get married again. the divorce must be done according to the law of Allah swt. Allah knows best because you might want to take her back during these 3months. however i am not a scholar so maybe its best if you get a second opinion from imaam as every scholar differs and thats the problem but i would seek the islamic divorce its best.

I am wondering if this is markislam. Whowever it is, he does not wish to remain married to his wife, now he has converted to Islam. by glo(add to rasema's reputation)

There is a very good reason why he doesn't want to remain with his wife. He has not converted to Islam out of capriciousness nor to piss his wife off.

People seek anonymous accounts for a few good reasons ..
if this is Mark we should respect why he chose to go under anon, further, we really need not probe further into information that he didn't wish to part with, rather answer only as pertains to his question insha'Allah..

I think it is a major deterrent to why some posters are hesitant to post here .. this ultimate delivery of a harangue and probing into other people's business seeking to offer 'our opinion' rather than a scholarly opinion or ultimately what most really seek which is a consolation!

a couple of reminders from this very section insha'Allah

http://www.islamicboard.com/advice-s...ot-ulamaa.html

and two


Abou Hurayrah relates that Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said: "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak a good word or remain silent. And whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should show hospitality to his neighbor. And whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should show hospitality to his guest."� [Sahih Al-Bukhari and Sahih Al Muslim]

just my opinion but if you didn't get an Islamic contract for marriage then you can't by the same token seek a divorce Islamically.. However, you can get a civil divorce citing irreconcilable differences. I do worry for the fate of the children, but if your wife is belligerent and abusive toward you or your religion then in all likelihood you can use those against her in court to gain custody of your children-- if you don't wish for them to live influenced by her execration which she is very likely to pass to the children as a form or revenge-- for now I'd really keep very cool and watch everything you say because if this is both your intent and as far as children are concerned then I don't see any good reason why she wouldn't go after you with every ammo in the book...

she is a mother first and last and I hope that the issue can be resolved to both your liking..

and Allah swt knows best

format_quote Originally Posted by Gossamer skye

People seek anonymous accounts for a few good reasons ..
if this is Mark we should respect why he chose to go under anon, further, we really need not probe further into information that he didn't wish to part with, rather answer only as pertains to his question insha'Allah..

I think it is a major deterrent to why some posters are hesitant to post here .. this ultimate delivery of a harangue and probing into other people's business seeking to offer 'our opinion' rather than a scholarly opinion or ultimately what most really seek which is a consolation!

a couple of reminders from this very section insha'Allah

http://www.islamicboard.com/advice-s...ot-ulamaa.html

and two


Abou Hurayrah relates that Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said: "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak a good word or remain silent. And whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should show hospitality to his neighbor. And whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should show hospitality to his guest."� [Sahih Al-Bukhari and Sahih Al Muslim]

100000% agree!

Jazaki Allah khair for reminding!

Anonymous brother, May Allah help you through your hardship. I strongly recommend you to ask a scholar or ask in one of the reliable websites like:

www.islamonline.net >>> Ask the scholar "I think you need a username here"

www.islamqa.com >>> Send your question

http://english.islamweb.net >>> Send a fatwa


hopefully they will reply to you soon, I think if you send your question to all of them that will guarantee a quicker response inshaAllah

I am not aware of more good websites, hope others lengthen the list for you inshaAllah.

muslim men are allowed to have Christian wives right?

format_quote Originally Posted by markislam

ok well the cover is out so the anonymous system does not work at all here .

I guess most of the times it work as all participants don't try to find it out.

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i did not say iam going to divorce.

that's good

Divorce is allowed but not encouraged. But bro , instead of looking how to make married life better , why want to know about divorce ????

format_quote Originally Posted by markislam

It is hard for two people of different faiths to live under the same roof.

Why not invite her to join here and know about Islam more ? Also , Keep praying for her to Allah.

InshaAllah you will be granted what is good for your hereafter.