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You need to ask a scholar on this one - seems quite complex.

salam thanks but where do i ask a scholar from i have asked a few imams and muftis from islamic directory but got no sound replie im totally confussed

Where abouts are you located?

Have you tried you local masjid and maybe ask if you can speak to someone knowledgable?

Maybe talk to a couple to get more of an insight on what you should do.

Inshallah, I hope everything works out for the best - Ameen

salaam thank you all for replying i live in Birmingham please tell me who to contact for advice for the first part of my question what about the second part should she carry on with the pregnancy as she believes it was allah's will and he will help her

I agree with other members. Sister, you should ask a scholar about this.

Now someone has asked this question at islam-qa.com:
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Ruling on surgery that causes sterility
What is the ruling on operations that prevent pregnancy?

Praise be to Allaah.

It is not permitted to carry out operations on men or women that will lead to complete sterility, such as cutting the vas deferens (vasectomy) in men, or removing the ovaries or womb (hysterectomy) in women. This is because cutting off all possibility of future offspring with no valid reason is haraam, as it goes against what the Prophet SAWS (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) wanted for his ummah, and is a source of shame and humiliation for the Muslims. The more the Muslims increase in number, the more this is a source of pride and status for them. Allaah has guaranteed to provide for His slaves, as He says (interpretation of the meaning): “And no living, moving creature is there on earth but its provision is due from Allaah. And He knows its dweeling place and its deposit (in the uterus, grave, etc.). All is in a Clear Book.” [Hood 11:6]. So cutting off all possibility of future offspring for no good reason goes against this teaching. However, if it is necessary to carry out an operation of the kind mentioned – such as a case where the mother’s life will be in danger if she becomes pregnant, or she is suffering from a disease in her womb which it is feared could spread and kill her (such as cancer), so she has no choice but to have her womb removed – then there is nothing wrong with carrying out these operations in such cases of necessity. And Allaah knows best.

Fataawaa al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah (2/974); Fataawaa li’l-Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (2/975); Fataawaa al-Shaykh Muhammad ibn Ibraaheem.
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(Again) I will say that cases like this might be individual, so I encourage asking.

Sister, like other members said it'd be best to ask a scholar, for cases like this might be individual.

Here is a question asked at islam-qa.com:

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Ruling on surgery that causes sterility
What is the ruling on operations that prevent pregnancy?

Praise be to Allaah.

It is not permitted to carry out operations on men or women that will lead to complete sterility, such as cutting the vas deferens (vasectomy) in men, or removing the ovaries or womb (hysterectomy) in women. This is because cutting off all possibility of future offspring with no valid reason is haraam, as it goes against what the Prophet SAWS (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) wanted for his ummah, and is a source of shame and humiliation for the Muslims. The more the Muslims increase in number, the more this is a source of pride and status for them. Allaah has guaranteed to provide for His slaves, as He says (interpretation of the meaning): “And no living, moving creature is there on earth but its provision is due from Allaah. And He knows its dweeling place and its deposit (in the uterus, grave, etc.). All is in a Clear Book.” [Hood 11:6]. So cutting off all possibility of future offspring for no good reason goes against this teaching. However, if it is necessary to carry out an operation of the kind mentioned – such as a case where the mother’s life will be in danger if she becomes pregnant, or she is suffering from a disease in her womb which it is feared could spread and kill her (such as cancer), so she has no choice but to have her womb removed – then there is nothing wrong with carrying out these operations in such cases of necessity. And Allaah knows best.

Fataawaa al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah (2/974); Fataawaa li’l-Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (2/975); Fataawaa al-Shaykh Muhammad ibn Ibraaheem.
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*copy &past* Sister, like other members said it'd be best to ask a scholar, for cases like this might be individual.

It seems a bit unfair for a perfectly healthy man to have vasectomy - espeically as a woman is allowed to have such an operation if pregnancy puts her life at risk. Although in this case the man says he doesn't want to marry again, life doesn't always give us choices. I have heard of people whose entire families have been wiped out in one go. Reversal isn't always successful either. Even if he was islamically permitted to go ahead with it (which I doubt), vasectomies aren't guaranteed to 100%. It is rare but the in some cases the ducts have spontaneously reconnected and children been fathered. Sterilisation is permitted for the wife so it is better for her to do it. The husband should leave his body as Allah blessed him with.

thank you all for replying brother hamza thank you for the phone number some one said why does not the women have the sterilization if the man is healthy the case for the women is she is not allowed the opp on medical grounds or any other type of contraceptive apart from a few not good at all as she is on anti-coagulation drugs the risk is to great for her all in all she should have tied her camel first thank you all for replying

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salam thanks but where do i ask a scholar from i have asked a few imams and muftis from islamic directory but got no sound replie im totally confussed

salam . dear u should need to discuss the old man which have some experience. so u have a collect some information with him.