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    Salaam alaikum guys

    Can anyone tell me what all problems you get if you get married without doing istikhara? does it end in divorce?

    i need to know pros and cons for my understanding

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    Re: Marriages without istikhara

    Wa'alaikum Assalam

    Istikhara is non-obligatory, so it's not a requirement or obligation to perform before marriage, but it's highly recommended. Istikhara is only to ease a believer by helping him make a decision between two matters of which would be best for his future and iman, eg. getting married to so-and-so, or not.

    Also, anything could better someone's iman, even divorce, so it can't be said that divorce wouldn't occur even if istikhara was to be performed.

    Does that help?

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    mashAllah nice reply sis Charisma
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    Re: Marriages without istikhara

    format_quote Originally Posted by *charisma* View Post
    Wa'alaikum Assalam

    Istikhara is non-obligatory, so it's not a requirement or obligation to perform before marriage, but it's highly recommended. Istikhara is only to ease a believer by helping him make a decision between two matters of which would be best for his future and iman, eg. getting married to so-and-so, or not.

    Also, anything could better someone's iman, even divorce, so it can't be said that divorce wouldn't occur even if istikhara was to be performed.

    Does that help?

    Fi aman Allah
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    Yes it does and it is said marriages are made in heaven is that true in our religion?
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    Re: Marriages without istikhara

    In a way, yes. Everything is predestined and nothing occurs without Allah's permission. Therefore, whoever you marry can only and is only willed by Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
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    Can anyone tell me what all problems you get if you get married without doing istikhara?
    Could someone explain to me what is istikhara?

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    Re: Marriages without istikhara

    theres a sticky thread on the top when you go in to advice and support... you could read about it there.
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    Re: Marriages without istikhara

    format_quote Originally Posted by rabimansur View Post

    Could someone explain to me what is istikhara?

    شكرا


    istikhara is a 2-rakat prayer with dua to seek Allah's help for a decision.


    http://www.islamicacademy.org/html/D..._Istakhara.htm
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