Aslaamu Alaaykum . . .
How can you say the brothers and sisters who have tried helping you on this thread are not HELPING you out sis? They are advising you, some may have also experienced such events in their lifetime. I guess since this is a public thread, people are bound to give their opinions and sometimes they include facts that may seem harsh to others.
Weather its true that the guy is ill or not ill, its still a haraam relationship. You should`nt even talking to a guy on the phone in the first place, but maybe you was not aware it was haraam at the time?
Anyways May Allaah help you and make it easy for you, do what you think pleases Allaah the Allmighty, if he is ill ask Allaah to cure him i.e.make dua for him, his family is there to care him.
If you really like the Brother get a Mahram i.e.your father, brother and fix an arrangement InshaAllaah.
But first think remember if you do marry him, it should be Fisabeelilah (For the sake of Allaah).. before marrying him pray Ishtikara etc, thats if you do think about marrying him
My opinion is Relationships can be considered in any way, ie.net,real life whatever, but it has to be Halaal, ie have a Mahram involved inshaAllaah Khayr just my opinion , as i may be wrong!
If i have said anything harsh,bad, upsetting forgive me, and if i said anything wrong correct me inshaAllaah
Wa Alaaykum Salaam
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