I'm sorry if I didn't tell it before, I don't know why I always forgot.
My wife is in hospital since last week, 17 October. Doctor decided she need medical treatment in hospital. This morning doctor told me, the cancer that come against move very fast. Now it has attacks her lung and lever.
But I'm still hoping my wife will be better, ... I'm still hoping.
Aww thts so sweet m glad she's getting better n is smiling. Tell her to keep smiling its sunnah
M sure she's gng to love it Wen u take her to the park. May Allah give her a speedy recovery ameen
She laugh when our youngest kid look scary and asked her "mom, will tomorrow apocalypse?", and she said "that is Mayan's apocalypse. If you are not Mayan, you don't need to be afraid"
Alhamdulillah,Good to hear your wife is now on a road to recovery.Make her smile as often as you can,its Sadqa-e-Jaria.Hope you will soon find yourself sitting with your wife on a park bench,Insha Allah
We visited a supermarket near our home. My wife used wheelchair.
I don't know, it was accidentally or Allah wanted to show us something. When me and my wife wait for my son who queue in cashier, a young man with disability passed on his wheelchair. He looked and smile at me and my wife. We smile at him too. I noticed his face and I saw although he is a man with disability, he still look happy in his life.
I don't know, it was accidentally or Allah wanted to show us something. When me and my wife wait for my son who queue in cashier, a young man with disability passed on his wheelchair. He looked and smile at me and my wife. We smile at him too. I noticed his face and I saw although he is a man with disability, he still look happy in his life.
A Gift from Allah
Surely,there are signs for those who reflect on them.
Allah made everyone different thats what makes them special,so no matter what ppl say just remember you're SPECIAL!! "You are with the one you love"
Nem0
Allah made everyone different thats what makes them special,so no matter what ppl say just remember you're SPECIAL!! "You are with the one you love"
Nem0
To be honest, I was worried that I would be regarded as a husband who less able to take care of my wife when I told my wife condition. But maybe this is excessive worry.
Frankly, my wife's condition is not good. There is no longer any significant progress since the last time I wrote in this thread. She still can not walk. Well indeed, when in the hospital, the doctor has said that my wife's bone condition is very severe, and they could not do anything. I told the doctor that I could accept this situation. I did not expect much, I just want my wife to stay with me.
Her health condition sometimes up, sometimes down. Sometimes she could sit a long time, even long enough for a short trip to a nearby place. Sometimes her health declined to have a lot of lying on the bed. A few days back was failing. But Alhamdulillah, now improved again. Yeah, after I told her that she must healthy enough, so we can go shopping again.
Jazakillah Khayr, for your du'a, sister. I hope I always able to take care my wife and encourage her to never give up.
Allah made everyone different thats what makes them special,so no matter what ppl say just remember you're SPECIAL!! "You are with the one you love"
Nem0
Jazaakumullah khairan, and ameen for your du'a, bro, sis.
Yah, my wife condition is always make me sad, but I try to not sad. I want to always have a hope and optimism in my heart. So I can make her has a hope and optimist too.
Today my wife friend visited us, with her 4 children. Yesterday, two teachers from my youngest son school. Alhamdulillah, we often get visits. And it makes us feel stronger.
Today my wife wanted to eat sate padang as her dinner. So I bought sate padang and brought it to our home. She look enjoy her dinner. I felt happy when I saw it, but also sad. I miss the beautiful moments when we dinner out with our kids. That's the beautiful moment when I always felt happiness as a husband and as a daddy.
May Allah ease everything for you both and for the whole Ummah Ameeeen
they are hard such moments my respected brother for both of you but be happy cause I am so sure that your wife is too lucky having such amazing husband as you are (may Allah bless you both Aameeen); now after Allah you are her strength and happiness too...never let the smile fade away from your face and always be sure that Allah The Most Merciful Is with you so, don't be sad...and after every hardship there is an ease and Allah repeated this verse twice ...
Be strong and I am sure that you are In Shaa Allah...
May Allah ease everything for you both and for the whole Ummah Ameeeen
they are hard such moments my respected brother for both of you but be happy cause I am so sure that your wife is too lucky having such amazing husband as you are (may Allah bless you both Aameeen); now after Allah you are her strength and happiness too...never let the smile fade away from your face and always be sure that Allah The Most Merciful Is with you so, don't be sad...and after every hardship there is an ease and Allah repeated this verse twice ...
Be strong and I am sure that you are In Shaa Allah...
Ameen and Jazakillah Khayr for your du'a, my noble sister.
As a human being, of course I could be tired or annoyed about something. And it makes me sometimes forget to smile at my wife. But today I try to keep smiling. Alhamdulillah, I noticed a change in my wife, she appears to be more robust. In Shaa Allah, I will continue to try to smile.
When I learned Qur'an in my childhood, my ustadz told me a story.
A Man came to Rasulullah Shalallahu Alayhi Wasalam and asked him.
"Yaa Rasulullah, who is the first person I must honor?"
"Your mother" Rasulullah Shalallahu Alayhi Wasalam replied
"The second?"
"Your mother"
"The third?"
"Your mother"
"The fourth?"
"Your father"
Then my ustadz told me why Rasulullah Shalallahu Alayhi Wasalam gave special position for the mothers, and why I must honor my mother.
My wife is not my mother. But, ... she is the mother of my children.
I still remember when she was pregnant and always trying to keep her pregnancy and her health. I still remember her struggle to give birth my children, I was with her at that time. I saw her breastfeeding my children and treat them with love.
Allah made everyone different thats what makes them special,so no matter what ppl say just remember you're SPECIAL!! "You are with the one you love"
Nem0
You are a mass of feelings and emotions my respected brother and none has the right ever to stop ya from expressing your feelings...whenever you are sad try to find a place where none can be there but Allah then you . make ablution then pray its Sunnah (2 Rakat) and let all of your sadness get out while praying to Allah in your Sujood...cry if you want and ask Allah for the relief...He Is listening and The Only One Who knows what you are going through and how exactly you are feeling... tell Him everything let all your sorrow out for The One Who really tame and bring happiness to your burdened heart...I assure ya after that you will feel so light and refreshed and Allah will give you so much of strength and life to bear whatever In shaa.
Your wife loves you as i believe and she is trying to bear and be strong to not worry you...
I Ask Allah with all of His Names and Attributes; The Known to all of His creatures dead and alive and with The Ones which unknown but to Him and beg Him The Lord of Al Aaalameen with His Greatest Name which if one of His slaves would ask Him for anything by it then He answers, accept and grant him/her need to love you , Be with you always and Be pleased with you with a pleasure which there is no wrath after it in both dunya and Akhirah and May The One Who united you in this dunya; unite you both with your kids and all those whom you love in Al Firdaws Al Aalaa without any reckoning nor previous punishment; entering Al Jannah from all its 8 doors with the first group entering it Ya Rabb and May He The Most Merciful The Exalted The Most Generous build houses for you close to Him; seeing His Al Mighty Face all the time ; covered with all of His blessings and grace; gathered with all Anbiyaa and Saaliheen Yaaa Rabbb...
Anilhamdulilaahi Rabbi Ilaalameen wa assalaatu wa assalam alaa khaatam Al Anbiyaa wa Al Mursaleen Muhammad Bin Abdillahi wa Aalihi wa Sahbihi wa man Ettabahu be'ehsaanin Elaa Yawmuddeen
Allahuma Aameeeeeeeeeeeeeen
You are strong by Allah and after Him In Shaa Allah we won't forget a dear and precious son of our beloved Ummah In Shaa Allah...your worries, sadness, happiness and whatever are ours...we are all one body In Shaa Allah...You are not alone In Shaa Allah...even the angels (peace be upon them) make duaa for the believers (read Surat Ghaafir and it has the proof).
some supplications you may want to know In Shaa Allah:
In al-Saheehayn it was reported from Ibn ‘Abbaas that the Messenger of Allaah (Peace and Blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to say, when he felt distressed:
لا إلَهَ إلاَّ اللَّهُ الْعَظـيمُ الْحَلِـيمْ، لا إلَهَ إلاَّ اللَّهُ رَبُّ العَـرْشِ العَظِيـمِ، لا إلَهَ إلاَّ اللَّهُ رَبُّ السَّمَـوّاتِ ورّبُّ الأَرْضِ ورَبُّ العَرْشِ الكَـريم
“There is no god except Allaah, the All-Mighty, the Forbearing; there is no god except Allaah, the Lord of the Mighty Throne; there is no god except Allaah, Lord of the heavens, Lord of the earth and Lord of the noble Throne.” (Al-Bukhari 8/154, Muslim 4/2092, )
It was reported from Anas (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (Peace and Blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to say, when something upset him:
“Yaa Hayyu yaa Qayyoom, bi Rahmatika astagheeth (O Ever-Living One, O Everlasting One, by Your mercy I seek help).”
It was reported that Asmaa’ bint ‘Umays (may Allaah be pleased with her) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to me:
“Shall I not teach you some words to say when you feel distressed?
اللهُ اللهُ رَبِّ لا أُشْـرِكُ بِهِ شَيْـئاً
‘Allaah, Allaah, Rabbee laa ushriku bihi shay’an’
Allaah, Allaah, my Lord, I do not associate anything with Him (Abu Dawud 2/87. See also Al-Albani, Sahih Ibn Majah 2/335.)
It was reported from ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No person suffers any anxiety or grief, and says:
‘Allaahumma innee ‘abduka wa ibn ‘abdika wa ibn amatika, naasiyati bi yadika, maadin fiyya hukmuka, ‘adlun fiyya qadaa’uka, as’aluka bi kulli ismin huwa laka sammayta bihi nafsaka aw anzaltahu fi kitaabika aw ‘allamtahu ahadan min khalqika aw ista’tharta bihi fi ‘ilm il-ghaybi ‘andak an taj’ala al-Qur’aana rabee’ qalbi wa noor sadri wa jalaa’a huzni wa dhahaaba hammi’
“O Allaah, I am Your slave, son of Your slave, son of Your female slave, my forelock is in Your hand, Your command over me is forever executed and Your decree over me is just. I ask You by every Name belonging to You which You named Yourself with, or revealed in Your Book, or You taught to any of Your creation, or You have preserved in the knowledge of the unseen with You, that You make the Qur’aan the life of my heart and the light of my breast, and a departure for my sorrow and a release for my anxiety”
but Allah will take away his sorrow and grief, and give him in their stead joy.” (Ahmad 1/391)
forgive me for the long post and May Allah Be with you always and forever and the Whole Ummah too Aameeen
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