I need help please im 31 years old i have had a problem with my ears they bug me i cant seem to mske anybody happy because im not happy myself inside my left ear is bigger then the right i feel very lonely and i dont feel happy inside what should i do my brothers thanks 10 years i have been very lonely i have no confidence best advice please jazakallah
I fear Allah and i would never do surgery to push them in because Allah made me like this for a reason but why do i feel unhappy inside i was married for 7 years and now im divorced i find it hard to make anybody happy i try my best to make Allah happy i wish i find a woman to marry that excepts me the way i look i sometimes feel very lonely inside and afraid to do anything in life.
I've known a guy with such a condition. He never had any problem socializing with people, and was good company to be around. I'm no longer in touch with him, but he, definitely, had a boatload of friends. The barrier which you seem to be facing is more psychological than you'd like to admit. Step up and stop "trying to please" people, just be yourself, and offer honesty. You will win friends inshaAllah, and won't feel so cornered.
If Allah helps you, none can overcome you; and if He forsakes you, who is there after Him that can help you? And in Allah (Alone) let believers put their trust.
Surah Ale Imran : 160
It was narrated that Anas ibn Maalik (may Allaah be pleased with him) said:
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allaah be upon him) climbed up Uhud, accompanied by Abu Bakr, ‘Umar and ‘Uthmaan, and the mountain shook with them. He struck it with his foot and said: “Stand firm, O Uhud, for there is no one on you but a Prophet or a Siddeeq or two martyrs.”
Narrated by al-Bukhaari (3483)
Allah (Subhaanahu Wa Taala) does not inspire seeking forgiveness in a slave whom he wishes to punish.
I need help please im 31 years old i have had a problem with my ears they bug me i cant seem to mske anybody happy because im not happy myself inside my left ear is bigger then the right i feel very lonely and i dont feel happy inside what should i do my brothers thanks 10 years i have been very lonely i have no confidence best advice please jazakallah
Assalamaualaikum, brother Naz
If you live near me we can meet and be friend, and like other people, I would not have any problem with your ears. So bro, if people do not have problem with your ears, why you think your ears become a problem for other people?.
I i wish i find a woman to marry that excepts me the way i look
As long as you do not judge a woman by her physical apperance, Insha Allah, there's always a woman who will accept you as a husband.
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Salam im naz from Ireland
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