× Register Login What's New! Contact us
Results 1 to 5 of 5

Thread: confused

  1. #1
    lindsey81's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2013
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Atheism
    Posts
    3
    Threads
    2
    Reputation
    5
    Rep Power
    0
    Likes (Given)
    0
    Likes (Received)
    0

    confused

    Report bad ads?

    hi.. i know ive been stupid and well would just like to here other peoples opinions .i was told after an operation i couldnt have children so when i got with my boyfriend who is Moroccan i was shocked when i got pregnant i was weak and let him bully me into a chemical abortion which i have regretted ever since and hate myself for being so weak anyway i have took the pill every single day since but a year on i have fallen pregnant again im scared to tell him as i know how he is going to react but i feel bad for lying to him as im just not the kind of person that can lie to someone i care about but i cannot go through what he put me through last time

  2. Report bad ads?
  3. #2
    sister herb's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2006
    Location
    Finland
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    9,180
    Threads
    335
    Reputation
    55893
    Rep Power
    117
    Likes (Given)
    6175
    Likes (Received)
    7314

    Re: confused

    Hi to you my sister in humanity

    What if you leave that man who puts you to make abortion (if he is muslim he should know that abortion is sin in islam) and let your child to born. I don´t know in where you live but if you can´t keep your child, you may give it to some other family by adoption.
    confused

    From Occupied Palestine:

    We have suffered too much for too long. We will not accept apartheid masked as peace. We will settle for no less than our freedom.




  4. #3
    Berries'forest's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    194
    Threads
    14
    Reputation
    1366
    Rep Power
    43
    Likes (Given)
    37
    Likes (Received)
    74

    Re: confused

    Hi and Welcome to IB .

    I don't mean to be blunt but it seems that you are in an abusive relationship. It seems that your bf is using you for his benefits and knows you're weaknesses and that you give into his demands this is why he is manipulating you. If you want to keep the child then you shouldn't tell him. But in the end the child must know whom his/her father is. I think you should open up the subject of marriage to him and if he doesn't seem interest then you're probably better off without him and know that your bf doesn't represent Islam so don't let your negative experience with him tarnish the image you have about Islam. I'm sorry if this wasn't helpful but I hope you find what's best for you.
    Last edited by Berries'forest; 05-10-2013 at 10:55 AM.
    | Likes sister herb liked this post

  5. #4
    lindsey81's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2013
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Atheism
    Posts
    3
    Threads
    2
    Reputation
    5
    Rep Power
    0
    Likes (Given)
    0
    Likes (Received)
    0

    Re: confused

    thankyou i have spoken to him and he was actually very happy and he himself bought up marriage and said we need to have good talk about everything thankyou

  6. Report bad ads?
  7. #5
    ~Zaria~'s Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2011
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    1,592
    Threads
    138
    Reputation
    23780
    Rep Power
    62
    Likes (Given)
    1361
    Likes (Received)
    1830

    Re: confused

    ^ Thats great to hear!

    All the best to you.

    Please feel free to chat to us if you have anything on your mind.
    Last edited by ~Zaria~; 05-09-2013 at 06:59 PM.
    confused




    يَا مُقَلِّبَ الْقُلُوبِ ثَبِّتْ قَلْبِى عَلَى دِينِكَ

    Ya Muqallib al-Quloob, Thabbit Qalbi Ala Deenik
    "Oh Turner of Hearts, keep my heart firm on Your Deen."



    Subscribe and Share:
    Seeking the Pleasure of Allah



  8. Hide
Hey there! confused Looks like you're enjoying the discussion, but you're not signed up for an account.

When you create an account, we remember exactly what you've read, so you always come right back where you left off. You also get notifications, here and via email, whenever new posts are made. And you can like posts and share your thoughts. confused
Sign Up

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
create