hi.. i know ive been stupid and well would just like to here other peoples opinions .i was told after an operation i couldnt have children so when i got with my boyfriend who is Moroccan i was shocked when i got pregnant i was weak and let him bully me into a chemical abortion which i have regretted ever since and hate myself for being so weak anyway i have took the pill every single day since but a year on i have fallen pregnant again im scared to tell him as i know how he is going to react but i feel bad for lying to him as im just not the kind of person that can lie to someone i care about but i cannot go through what he put me through last time imsad
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Hi to you my sister in humanity
What if you leave that man who puts you to make abortion (if he is muslim he should know that abortion is sin in islam) and let your child to born. I don´t know in where you live but if you can´t keep your child, you may give it to some other family by adoption.
What if you leave that man who puts you to make abortion (if he is muslim he should know that abortion is sin in islam) and let your child to born. I don´t know in where you live but if you can´t keep your child, you may give it to some other family by adoption.
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Hi and Welcome to IB 
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I don't mean to be blunt but it seems that you are in an abusive relationship. It seems that your bf is using you for his benefits and knows you're weaknesses and that you give into his demands this is why he is manipulating you. If you want to keep the child then you shouldn't tell him. But in the end the child must know whom his/her father is. I think you should open up the subject of marriage to him and if he doesn't seem interest then you're probably better off without him and know that your bf doesn't represent Islam so don't let your negative experience with him tarnish the image you have about Islam. I'm sorry if this wasn't helpful but I hope you find what's best for you.
.I don't mean to be blunt but it seems that you are in an abusive relationship. It seems that your bf is using you for his benefits and knows you're weaknesses and that you give into his demands this is why he is manipulating you. If you want to keep the child then you shouldn't tell him. But in the end the child must know whom his/her father is. I think you should open up the subject of marriage to him and if he doesn't seem interest then you're probably better off without him and know that your bf doesn't represent Islam so don't let your negative experience with him tarnish the image you have about Islam. I'm sorry if this wasn't helpful but I hope you find what's best for you.
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