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    Asalam Alaikum ,

    I need some advice .. I met this guy online for marriage purposes only.. I spoke to him several times on the phone and chat .. He seems like a really nice, religious guy so after awhile I told my parents about him and our parents spoke .. Everything was going well .. Until he booked his airline tickets to come and see me but my dad was going to be away that weekend so him and his family had I cancel the tickets and they said they will reschedule .. But it's been like over a week and we haven't heard
    From him or his mom .. The thing Is I don't feel like moving on so quickly I really liked him and wanted to get to know him Better my family liked him to .. However my parents are worried about my marriage and have been showing me other guys .. But I jus can't seem to get over this guy however I haven't heard from him ... I need advice on wat to do .. My parents and family have lots of good rishtas for me but I don't feel like seeing them or even talking to them .. I miss this guy a lot .. I know that Islamically this is bad .. However I can't get my mind of him . I really liked talking to him .. Should I call or text him ??? Or my mom call his mom ?? Please give me some advice on wat to do
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    sis , offer Istekhara salat and then proceed.

    may Allah grants what is best for u .
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    Christ will never be proud to reject to be a slave to God .....holy Quran, chapter Women , 4: 172

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    format_quote Originally Posted by straightpath1 View Post
    Should I call or text him ??? Or my mom call his mom ??
    It's better if your mom contact his mom and start build intensive communication between two families.
    Last edited by ardianto; 06-18-2013 at 06:10 AM. Reason: his,not her
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    yes , it's best if parents contact . But pl. do offer the Istekhara salat . There is no harm doing it.
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