Althumdullilah I am married and have 2 childrens, I love my parents,wife and children,

The issue is my mother still after 2 sons I have, not allow me to make any of my decision, even if i had to goto invitation for dinner from my in laws to meet them he just ask me to refuse them not for any reason , she just did not like my intereaction with my in-laws parents, even if i want to buy cloths for my children she said no sometime and sometime she bring herself.

There is always fight between me and my wife that i cannot make my own decisions even for my chidlren and my mother always interfear, ofcourse as a mother (my wife) she wants to make her own decisions on her children as but my mother say I am elder and only i can make decision.

My in-laws parents also not happy with me , even they shouted at me that you are so a child that even you can not make a single of your ownd decsion and even sometime the fight reach that my wife does not want to came home.

I did not want to lose my family , nor i want to become childish that even i cannot make decision what to eat, not sure why my mother still want such a strict control over me that i become ashamed in the world, i cry when i alone as i am too heart.

Please pray for me , and let me know what to do in that case.