Can I console myself in Allah's master plan for me ? Is it real because right now I cannot see anything bright about nyself. I am acrewed in everything and has no real talent. I also give up too easily in everything and have achieved nothing despite academic excellence. I have neither deen or duniya. Will Ineventually get anywhere in deen or dunya or am I here to be rot in this world ? How Allah changed your life using his master plan ?
if you keep a crappy attitude the way you have, you won't be making ANY friends, all will run a mile from you - people like HAPPY PEOPLE... so BE HAPPY, not a crybaby who needs sympathy - at your age you should be a MAN, not a frikking loser... and that's what you gonna be if you keep telling yourself you are all of those things you believe yourself to be.
If I met you in person, I'd slap the nonsene out of you.
I've lost good friends in this world who had it a million gazillion times harder than you but managed to keep smiling through it all, and on the polar opposite - there's you - a LOSER OF HIS OWN MAKING.
Dude - you got no one to blame but yourself, if you ever get the chance to meet someone like me - they will beat the schitt out of you and give you something REAL to complain about... I'd take your legs, and detach them from your body, and throw them into a zoo.
Then you'd be right to complain how you got dealt a bum deal.
100,000 kisses to you my honorable brother scimi. Detaching my organs will be a big favor. How can you smile when you have no one ? What motivation can I give myself my brother ?
Wake up
pray
sleep
wakeup again
go to office by noon(nothing to do everything taken care of by employees or my brother and father)
go to zuhr
lunch
return home at 6
have tea
go to club to play squash and swim, gym
return home
eat dinner
watch tv and facebook
smoke
walk for an hour
sleep
repeat
thrice a week dinner at a restaurant with friends (boring childhood friends, no new friends) or family
how can someone be happy with such a stagnant life
i need big achievments to satisfy myself and even minor flaws or failures bring me down like crazy. In school,college and university 18/20 score was a matter of life and death to me 19/20 was ok and 20/20 was the thing that could made me happy. I am not so lucky in the professional life to achieve something big and thats why the depression. If its in my hand I would be working 24 hours a day. However there is no job that can keep me busy. Even in my business I have nothing to do and spend the time either on my phone doing leisure activities or talking to the people. This coupled with the rejections have really made me feel like a loser. I cannot pick up my head up anymore. The depression is getting to me. i try to find reason why this happened and there is no divine hint or reply. I overthink the issue and slowly and gradually losing everything in terms of confidence and everything.
go to office by noon(nothing to do everything taken care of by employees or my brother and father)
It's remind me to two guys who I've ever met. Although their life looked pleasant (drove newest cars, had much money), but I could see that they had lack of confidence. They even felt inferior toward other men who had low income but really working, not just got money from 'blank positions' like those two guys.
Different than Scimi, I would not want to swap my life with yours. I prefer a life which I must work for life. So I can feel happy, feel grateful, when I can give something to my children that I got from my own effort.
I like challenge because challenges make me 'alive', make me have something that I want to achieve. Indeed, live without challenge is boring.
I know that you feel bored with your life. But, why don't you create a challenge for yourself?. Have a dream, and try to make your dream come true.
exactly the same thing. Newest cars wont give me happiness anymore and I spend heavily on cars and latest gadgets and stuff thinking it will brimg me happiness. I invested into some projects some were success and others where I lost money. However, the provlem is I get bored and want to do something new irrespective of a loss or profit from the projects. 2 months do not passby and I want to do something new
Different than Scimi, I would not want to swap my life with yours. I prefer a life which I must work for life. So I can feel happy, feel grateful, when I can give something to my children that I got from my own effort.
oi... I like my life, it aint easy - but its mine and alhamdulillah, I have a good family, a roof over my head, my arms legs and a heart that beats blood around my body, and a mind to understand things which give me great pleasure in learning.
Would I swap for a materially inclined life which brings no pleasure except for the short term? Hell no.
I prefer books and research to fast cars and wonky business conquests
Wake up
pray
sleep
wakeup again
go to office by noon(nothing to do everything taken care of by employees or my brother and father)
go to zuhr
lunch
return home at 6
have tea
go to club to play squash and swim, gym
return home
eat dinner
watch tv and facebook
smoke
walk for an hour
sleep
repeat
thrice a week dinner at a restaurant with friends (boring childhood friends, no new friends) or family
how can someone be happy with such a stagnant life
He is Allah, other than whom there is no deity, the Sovereign, the Pure, the Perfection, the Bestower of Faith, the Overseer, the Exalted in Might, the Compeller, the Superior. Exalted is Allah above whatever they associate with Him [59:23]
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and alhamdulillah, I have a good family, a roof over my head, my arms legs and a heart that beats blood around my body, and a mind to understand things which give me great pleasure in learning.
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