Assalamu alaykum
I just want to give the men a clear statement that is a common misunderstanding between them and converts.
Here it is:
Most converts DO NOT want to be a second wife okay so quit asking us. lol. sorry but I hear it too much and want it to stop pronto.
That being said, I want to discuss this issue because I feel it really hurts my beliefs to feel this way but I can't help it. I feel deeply that a man can't truly and loyally love a woman when he is having intimate moments with more women than her. That is deeply ingrained into me. But in islam men are allowed to do that.
I just want to know why men would even want that . Please help me understand. I know I will not marry a married man ever. And I will not stay with a man who takes another wife and that's my right as a woman. But I want to feel empathy and not judgement for people who do polygamy.
so lets discuss it in some civil manner.
lisa
SAlaam alaykum scimi.
Thanks! You quote everything except my last message where I apologized already. geezzzzz
thanks for making me look like a complete ---. lol
thanks bro. much appreciated. haha
What did you expect? I don't cut corners.
You came here with one heck of a bias, and you expected us to feed it? come on.
I hope one day I would have strength to say to my husband I'm okay u to have second wife. Not all reverts are against it, I watched this documentary on bbc about Britain's reverting to Islam there was one sister that was Co wife she was very happy.
As long as the husband treats the equally and has strong eman and understands the deen I don't see anything wrong with it.
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