how do I get rid of this loneliness? I have like 0 friends and I can't make any due to my situation... no I'm not an ogre and I don't chase them away! Whenever it hits midnight I spend the whole night crying about my miserable life. How do I deal with this?
Well friends are two and a penny a dozen, but good friends are rare and sacred, to obtain them first of all you have to learn to be a good friend, otherwise the whole thing is a waste of time, in some ways you could have count yourself lucky.
This is only my opinion but, having 0 friends for me is a blessing. I have acquaintances and what not at work but, we're not friends in the traditional sense (visiting each other, talking on the phone, etc.) and I make sure to keep it that way in a respectful way of course.
Sis, there is nothing wrong with wanting someone to socialize with, especially if you're lonely but, please do not lose sleep over it, cry over it, or be in a state of depression over it. I don't know what your situation is nor is it any of my business but, if you can't get friends where you're at, you can always use discussion boards such as these.
I can definitely relate to when I was at high school, I had people around me but.. yeah.. I felt lonely most of the time to the point that it put a heavy burden on my shoulders every time I would wake up in the morning. The best way to deal with it is to appreciate and have gratitude to what Allah had given us in the form of food, water and shelter. It helps you move on in the long run.
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