I just ended a haram relationship but he won't leave me alone. He is texting and calling me all the time and it's becoming more and more difficult to try to move on because it's a constant reminder. I can feel myself being pulled back to him and he knows it... At first I didn't answer the calls or texts and then I gave in and answered and spoke to him for a bit. He was tearing up on the phone and I feel so emotionally weak that I'll end up going back to him.
Then today I go to the masjid and he is waiting outside for me in his car! I'm with my sister and he just beeps his horn and calls me over... My sister went bat crap crazy and accused me of seeing him again but I assured her I didn't arrange this... My sister went over instead and told him she will break his legs if he keeps on bothering me, obviously I think she is just joking but I don't want anything bad to happen to him. I just want him to not contact me for a few months so I can get myself together but I think he won't give up...
He knows I love him dearly and I can feel myself giving in and going back to him and I really don't want that to happen. I don't want to change my number because it's a hassle and I blocked his number but he just calls from a friends phone. social media isn't helping either cos I see his photos and he "likes" my photos and stuff. I'm really trying to move on and with Ramadan coming up I want to focus on this special month but I know I can feel myself tilting and even though I know that it's wrong I will end up giving into him and that would be the worst thing to happen. What should I do?
Last edited by EgyptPrincess; 05-25-2016 at 03:43 PM.
Narrated Jubair ibn Mut’im: The Messenger of Allah (S.A.W), said: "He is not one us who calls for `Asabiyah, (nationalism/tribalism) or who fights for `Asabiyah or who dies for `Asabiyah." [Sunan Abu Dawud (Vol. 2, pg. 753) No. 5121]
Glad to know that. And I am also happy that you are getting so much help from IB. I also once got good advices from IB. The members are really helpful here ma shaa Allah. And especially sisters are like expert in providing help (through PMs and posts Lol, men probably sleeping on PS4 )
This is not funny. You played with this guy's feelings. It is wrong of him to keep pursuing you but you used him. If you and him love each other then repent and marry each other to make it halal. IF you sincerly feel bad then apologize to him and tell him why you can not be with him. But if this is because you do not like him or lost feelings based on whims and desires then that is horrible. IF he was abusive then its understandable whyy you left.
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