I have had enough of everything! My trials, my family especially my sister. Every time I get in an argument she uses my problem against me which I have no control of.* It makes me very emotional because it's something I have dealt with the past 7-8 years and it has been one of the things that has made my life miserable and to her to use it against me just made me break down today. I am not the one to ever commit suicide but I feel like there's nothing left in this earth for me. Wallahi I just want Allah to take me already. I can't handle these trials anymore. You guys didn't get all the details only one sister on here knows but I'm sure you'd kill yourself too if you got my trials. I am just tried and I really don't know what to do anymore. I don't even know who to talk to! Why is this happening to me? Plz keep me in your duas I am a total mess tonight.
Maybe if you mentioned what exactly the trial is which you've been struggling with for 7-8 years, we will be able to give you help and information on that particular issue. So far, all of the advice you have been given - albeit very excellent advice - has been general. You need assistance with the particular problem you're having.
format_quote Originally Posted by Huzaifah ibn Adam
Respected sister,
Maybe if you mentioned what exactly the trial is which you've been struggling with for 7-8 years, we will be able to give you help and information on that particular issue. So far, all of the advice you have been given - albeit very excellent advice - has been general. You need assistance with the particular problem you're having.
OK so everyone seems to be confused of what trial I am talking about, it's Sihr the strongest type. For the past 8 years I suffered from multiple health issues and really bizarre ones.* I went from doctor to doctor and all the tests were normal and doctor were starting to get anoyyed with me and thought it was all in my head. I used to have friends but they all left me because of this stupid illness which has no cure. I recently developed Scietica lower back pain and I went on so much medication but nothing works. I stay up all night because the pain is too much wallahi. I am changing positions as I am typing this because I can't stay still in one spot. I kept up my ruqya for 1 month but than out came my lower back pain so i gave up* because the pain was too much. I quit my job because of my lower back pain and also because of my other illness. I have no social life because of this stupid Sihr.** My face has darken up and I have lost so much weight even though I eat a lot. I am sick of being in pain and wallahi I just wanna die!!!!! I can't do ruqya because I am in so much pain. I have done everything i can. I memorized so many duas and offered so many prayers crying out to Allah but nothing has changed in my situation I have also been having problems with salah these days. I get this stabbing feeling in my stomach and I feel all nauseous and dizzy but I still offer my salah in the end but I am about to give up wallahi. someone help me my life is really going down hill this yr!
I know I sound like I am complaining but I just need somewhere to vent. All I need right now is your duas for Allah to cure me or to take me out of my misery.
This is going to sound possibly odd, but have you been tested for kidney stones? They can mimic sciatic nerve pain and would explain why you are uncomfortable lying down, and getting nauseous and dizzy during salah.
This is going to sound possibly odd, but have you been tested for kidney stones? They can mimic sciatic nerve pain and would explain why you are uncomfortable lying down, and getting nauseous and dizzy during salah.
No my doctor hasn't tested me for that. She just puts me on meds. She's sending me to a specialist but I don't think I can wait any longer. I used to go to physio but i stopped going because my pain got worse.
I think you need a second doctor's opinion. Meds do not solve everything and these evidently are not working. How long until you see the specialist, and what are they a specialist in (if you do not mind my asking)?
I have been to 3 different doctors most of them are walk-in clinics. 2 of them already think I'm crazy because I keep going back presenting new problems. I don't she said she'll just send me to a specialist but I haven't heard anything back from them. I think she said something about nerve Idk I'm still waiting on it.
You are already much stronger than most of us on this forum, you have already found the strength to endure your pain for eight years, and the strength to endure your sister all these years too.
I get this stabbing feeling in my stomach and I feel all nauseous and dizzy
These symptoms are often compounded by worry and anxiety, as well as being a medical problem. If you can find peace in your heart, this will help reduce your anxiety and worry. Pray for the wisdom, the strength, peace and serenity to do the will of Allah, through all your pain and suffering. Pray for your sister to be blessed and find peace, try and help your sister, she may well be suffering herself.
When I was 62, I was diagnosed with non Hodgkin Lymphoma. this was the cancer our best friend died from. I prayed for the wisdom, strength, peace and serenity to do God's will, whether the cancer proved to be a death sentence, or just an inconvenience. I cannot explain the profound sense of peace I experienced from the moment of making that prayer. The thought of living with a possible death sentence has never troubled me at all over the last five years.
May you find blessings through all your trials and prayers.
May Allah make life easy for you
Make sure sister that one day all this things can be change ... it just a word from Allah be and it will be
Be patient Allah never give us more that our burden
When you hear that things from your sister ... just keep saying subhanallah or alhamdulillah and in your prostration take your time and say subhana rabbiya ala'ela WA bihamdih from your heart and feel it .. subhanallah when you do it .. your heart will be cheerful I did this and it's so helpful .. it's advice from Allah to the prophet muhammad pace be upon him .
When your sister tell you about that thing ... take this as a reminder from Allah to ask him and to remember him by saying alhamdulillah astaghfirou Allah
It just a period of time and it will end soon
But you should be the winner when it end to be a good memory for you in every time you remember your patience at that time if the whole world abandoned you Allah is always with you
It just a test and one day you will forget all this hardship and it will be just a memory
Be patient sister
OK so everyone seems to be confused of what trial I am talking about, it's Sihr the strongest type. For the past 8 years I suffered from multiple health issues and really bizarre ones.* I went from doctor to doctor and all the tests were normal and doctor were starting to get anoyyed with me and thought it was all in my head. I used to have friends but they all left me because of this stupid illness which has no cure. I recently developed Scietica lower back pain and I went on so much medication but nothing works. I stay up all night because the pain is too much wallahi. I am changing positions as I am typing this because I can't stay still in one spot. I kept up my ruqya for 1 month but than out came my lower back pain so i gave up* because the pain was too much. I quit my job because of my lower back pain and also because of my other illness. I have no social life because of this stupid Sihr.** My face has darken up and I have lost so much weight even though I eat a lot. I am sick of being in pain and wallahi I just wanna die!!!!! I can't do ruqya because I am in so much pain. I have done everything i can. I memorized so many duas and offered so many prayers crying out to Allah but nothing has changed in my situation I have also been having problems with salah these days. I get this stabbing feeling in my stomach and I feel all nauseous and dizzy but I still offer my salah in the end but I am about to give up wallahi. someone help me my life is really going down hill this yr!
May Allaah Ta`aalaa grant you swift and complete Shifaa, Aameen.
I think you need to see a specialist, In Shaa Allaah. It sounds like the doctors you've been going to aren't being thorough enough.
However, if the specialist too is unable to find anything wrong, then it might be a case of Sihr, in which case we would need to find out if there is a reliable Raaqi in your area who can perform Ruqyah on you until you are cured, In Shaa Allaah.
format_quote Originally Posted by Huzaifah ibn Adam
May Allaah Ta`aalaa grant you swift and complete Shifaa, Aameen.
I think you need to see a specialist, In Shaa Allaah. It sounds like the doctors you've been going to aren't being thorough enough.
However, if the specialist too is unable to find anything wrong, then it might be a case of Sihr, in which case we would need to find out if there is a reliable Raaqi in your area who can perform Ruqyah on you until you are cured, In Shaa Allaah.
Yea I have been to a raqi before he confirmed that it's multiple jinns through Sihr. I have been to couple sessions and I was told to carry out the rest at home but I'm just not strong enough and plus I can't sit too long because of my back. I was told this is the Sihr and jinns trying to stop me from doing ruqya. I have also developed this earthquake feeling in my body. Keep in mind i developed this problem two weeks ago. It feels as if though someone it's shaking me and what ever I am on. I cant see it i just feel and hear it. I did some research and it could be primary Progarasive Multiple Sclerosis and currently there is no medication treatments for this illness so no point of me going in and seeing a doctor. Just make dua Allah grants be complete shifa fast or a peaceful death.
I did some research and it could be primary Progarasive Multiple Sclerosis and currently there is no medication treatments for this illness so no point of me going in and seeing a doctor. Just make dua Allah grants be complete shifa fast or a peaceful death.
It could be also something else, so there is a point to go to see the doctor.
He is Allah, other than whom there is no deity, the Sovereign, the Pure, the Perfection, the Bestower of Faith, the Overseer, the Exalted in Might, the Compeller, the Superior. Exalted is Allah above whatever they associate with Him [59:23]
My ex-husband has progressive MS, and it rarely shows first off as tremors; that's a more advanced symptom. The tremors may very easily be a result of the anxiety caused by your trial.
My ex-husband has progressive MS, and it rarely shows first off as tremors; that's a more advanced symptom. The tremors may very easily be a result of the anxiety caused by your trial.
These earthquake feelings come usually when I'm relaxed so it's not my anxiety. I am really trying to make everyone understand but you would have to go through what I am going through to really understand. Jzk everyone for all your help.
*nods sadly* You are correct, we will never really understand what you are going through since we are not you, and we are not there. All we can do is be here for you, and I hope that the support of the community is at least helping you feel a little better.
Have you tried using a body pillow to take the pressure off your spine? After I had my daughter I had bad back pains for a while and leaning on one while sleeping helped immensely.
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