Do you know why they are burning women who wear hijab? It is because they can't flirt and have sex with her so they show their anger that way. When every women is walking half naked, a woman wearing hijab is the one that seems most attractive to see how she looks like. And i don't know which west you have been living in, everyone is out to have sex with each other. Tinder, Grinder, LGBT, there is sex everywhere. They are legitimizing sex with everyone and everything, i am afraid they will ask for rights of animals next since they have sex with humans too and have feelings.
There are demonstrations for women to be able to walk around showing off their breasts because men can so why can't the women (gender equality).
There is One Night Stands, you hook up with a random girl, you have sex for one night and then you forget about her. If you try to call her the next morning, you are considered a creep.
I find it hard to believe that "No "Western" guy has bothered me with something I consider harassment or borderline sexual comments", what i find more believable is the western guys were good at flirting and hitting so you didn't consider that creepy whereas the Muslims, Arabs, born and bred in Arab countries acted creepy because they aren't such players.
Sex is in the air and you haven't been hit on by any western guy? Either you are ugly or their boss and they're afraid of you.
I work for people who live in America and am very close to the American culture and i rarely see them get married. What i see is girlfriends/boyfriends or boyfriend/boyfriends or whatever sick sexual tendency and the most they will do is live together so idk what this mother loses a son thing you speak of. The mother loses their children there the moment they turn 13 and officially when turning 18, both son and daughter because they move out of the home of parents.
Nothing changes when they get married as far as parents are concerned because the kids already live on their own and in fact are frowned upon if they live with their parents.
I have not seen marriages of americans but what they usually do is both of them work. And none of them live with their parents except to visit on special occasions or when they die or get ill and hospitalized but even then they won't stay a night in hospital.
Sister, this is the second time you said we hate west. Where are you getting this thinking from? We don't hate west but the reality is the west looks at our way of life in a condescending manner. Get this lie out of your head please, i work for american people and their company relies exclusively on my work, if i were to leave they would tank. And they don't want to hire anyone else, if i hated west because of some weird reason that you have thought of then i wouldn't be working for them.
We hate immorality, acts of fahisha and sodomy...a gay guy tried to hit on me when in school and that has scarred me to this day so i hate/loathe gays and i believe that is a mental sickness like pedophilia is. If we feel okay with gay people, we should feel okay with pedophiles and necrophiliacs and incest too because they feel the same attraction that gays do and "are born this way and can't be turned off".
But i love west for its justice. It is the only thing they have got better, justice and is the reason they're prospering in this life.
As far as OP issue is concerned, he lives in an eastern culture and it is the norm to respect and treat husband's parents as your own. But you are right it isn't necessary and she can ask for a separate house but isn't it better that she take care of his parents?. It will be nothing but result in good deeds for her. And earning money outside is not easier than working at home and then to provide for your family especially if you work halal and are mindful of not doing any haram. But it depends on the job too but you can't say the husband's job is easier than the wife, both have their challenges and are hard work.
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