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    As salam alaikum

    My life went downhill when I was 15
    I had been diagnosed with strange mental illness I dunno
    Schizophrenia bipolar autism...

    I struggled with this mental illness not knowing how to handle it
    My mother and father took care of me
    My mother still cooks my dinner even though I'm 36
    And a full grown woman
    I know I must turn to Allaah
    And Allah is wise in decreeing this for me
    And I must be patient as it throws fire balls at me


    I got married and divorced

    My mother still takes care of me I really need my mother
    I pray I go to jannah with my mother

    I could never do prayers fasting

    I know Allaah is forgiving and merciful...
    I don't know I just don't know how to spend my days
    As a schizophrenic....
    I don't belong anywhere...

    Please help

    Jazakh Allah khair
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    Lightbulb Re: Social pressures hard life please help

    format_quote Originally Posted by Ghost1987 View Post
    As salam alaikum

    My life went downhill .....

    Please help

    Jazakh Allah khair
    Wa Alaikumus Salam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh,

    Firstly - Please do not loose hope! Allah Azza Wajal says in Surah Al Imran Verse 139: "Do not loose hope, nor be sad"

    Also, Allah says in Surah Baqarah Verse 155: "And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient".

    So what do we learn from these two ayats? Be patient and keep asking Allah for relief. Try your best from Today to say sincerely 100 times Istighfar (Astagfirullah) - Why? Click here to learn some of the benefits


    Secondly - Do you know the power of Dua? Dua is the weapon of a believer!

    And your Lord says, "Call upon Me, I will respond to you." Quran (40:60)

    Sincerely recommend reading this beautiful supplication (Dua) regularly.

    This is an authentic Dua recited by Prophet Yunus (AS) in the belly of the fish, when he was in distress. If any Muslim supplicates in these words, his supplication will be accepted/responded to.

    Dua Yunus Forgiveness 1 - Social pressures hard life please help


    Pronunciation: Laaa i-la-ha il-laaa anta sub-hanaka inni koon-tu minaz-zalimeen

    Meaning: There is no God but You, Glorified be You! Truly, I have been of the wrongdoers

    Learn More: https://www.duasrevival.com/supplica...us-forgiveness

    Please remember us in your Duas.

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    Re: Social pressures hard life please help

    I should remain firm on Tawheed and avoid shirk...

    That I should be humble

    That I should be thankful for the little I have...

    Alhamdulillah
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    Re: Social pressures hard life please help

    format_quote Originally Posted by Ghost1987 View Post
    I should remain firm on Tawheed and avoid shirk...

    That I should be humble

    That I should be thankful for the little I have...

    Alhamdulillah
    Jazakallahu Khairan. Beautifully worded....May Allah reward you.
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    Re: Social pressures hard life please help

    format_quote Originally Posted by Ghost1987 View Post
    As salam alaikum

    My life went downhill when I was 15
    I had been diagnosed with strange mental illness I dunno
    Schizophrenia bipolar autism...

    I struggled with this mental illness not knowing how to handle it
    My mother and father took care of me
    My mother still cooks my dinner even though I'm 36
    And a full grown woman
    I know I must turn to Allaah
    And Allah is wise in decreeing this for me
    And I must be patient as it throws fire balls at me


    I got married and divorced

    My mother still takes care of me I really need my mother
    I pray I go to jannah with my mother

    I could never do prayers fasting

    I know Allaah is forgiving and merciful...
    I don't know I just don't know how to spend my days
    As a schizophrenic....
    I don't belong anywhere...

    Please help

    Jazakh Allah khair
    Dearest Soul from Islamic Awakening forums,
    I remember you my sis - we both have had enough & just know you have been my most amazing sister from my stay in online world.
    Always have been in my duas & convos with my mom.
    I have had alot to go through those things & even worst upon worst ..
    Me & my mom relates our experiences exactly yours to some extent.


    Know - you're a gem & you had won our hearts at IA forums & here too ..
    It's so nice to see you Shukr Alhamdulillah.
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    Re: Social pressures hard life please help

    I always wonder why I'm not like the other children
    A little dry...
    You know schizophrenia and seizures...

    I failed my first marriage due to me not accepting a co wife....

    I end up listening to weird music...

    I think it's too late little too late
    To repent and do good deeds due to what has happened in this world like corona virus....

    I don't think I should have married

    I think I should have been a strict niqaabi
    And guard my Chastity even from marriage


    Life after marriage is hard you know...

    Couldn't even cook then the CO wife comes in

    It's worthless getting married in akihrul zamaan

    It's always a cry and a shout and a scream...

    I think I'm being punished with seizures due to getting married....and not being able to take care of the husband...
    Once you get married in akihrul zamaan ever since 1970 you lose it all if your not strict...

    Salam

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