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Am i allowed to marry a BISEXUAL Man?

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    Es-selamu alejkum!
    I need some genuine advice.

    I, a 25-year-old female, have been talking to a 34-year-old man.
    No, we are not dating, but we have been talking and getting to know each other more in pursuit of marriage.
    While we were discussing finances and other topics, he admitted to me that he is bisexual and has had intercourse with other men before we talked.
    He said he wouldn't do it anymore and has repented. ( I do believe him in that) Also, he has told me he is attracted very much to women, so our life after marriage wouldn't be a problem.

    My question is, how do I approach this?
    Am I allowed to marry a bisexual man in Islam? Or is it sinful for me?
    I tried looking up more about this topic but very little is spoken so i really need your help.
    Looking forward to your advice!
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    Re: Am i allowed to marry a BISEXUAL Man?

    It is not at all difficult to wait for one out of five hundred million good Muslim men out there in this world.
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    Re: Am i allowed to marry a BISEXUAL Man?

    Thank you but that wasn't my question!
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    Re: Am i allowed to marry a BISEXUAL Man?

    If he really repented he is not “a bisexual” anymore I guess. But I suggest you to question him on this more. Be sure wether he really repented.
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    Re: Am i allowed to marry a BISEXUAL Man?

    Sure? Being lgbtq isn’t a choice so he can’t change his feelings towards men plus he repented and he will be with a woman if you get married to him inshaallah
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    Re: Am i allowed to marry a BISEXUAL Man?

    This is awful - stay away!

    1. Muslims are told to give to charity and give the poor the due (this is because we are not charity ourselves and we don't give the poor whatever they want)

    2. There are plenty of criminals who don't want to spend time improving themselves, but if they were told they can get married, they are motivated. Here, they want things to be fixed EXTERNALLY instead of working INTERNALLY. This is where the west has been saying we need to give criminals whatever they want to help them to be happy so they won't be evil - this is not with Islam as they need to be good regardless.

    3. This person has already demonstrated that he is working at a weak level - Satan remember makes people believe their thoughts are normal. Being gay is not normal. If those people reject this, then are they saying the devils who follow everyone have nothing to do with it??

    4. Your role here is to pass your test for the reward in the hereafter. This doesn't mean working at someone's else's level-when they need to work hard on themselves. Criminals like to think that repenting means they get the life they want. This is not true-we are being tested.

    5. You should not continue to speak to him. We of course are not going to have a full list of all sins, but the rules are FORBID EVIL AND ENJOIN WHAT IS GOOD. To be around the best of people, if you can't find one, that doesn't mean you settle for this. When woman have converted to Islam and married better Men -what are you doing?? You would only be if you were with him, then be stressed, thinking you need to do this and that to make the marriage work 100%.

    6. People like him needs to learn what they should have learnt when they were children, being respectful, disciplined. You are in error by by believing him and of course speaking to him anyway on a personal level -as muslim woman you need to guard yourself this is your job, to speak to people FORMALLY-not as acquaintances, or that people think they can speak to you like this. He has already disrespected you and is speaking no differently to those who do scams, telling people what they want to hear. He has probably told you of his crimes, as he wishes to feel better about them having them in the open-this is nothing to do with being honest and open. People like him need to rely on your emotional ways to support him. He needs to do enough with is brain before asking what other people should be doing with their brains.

    Your job here is to pass the test, so make it easy on yourself! This does not mean being involved with someone and working at their level -which you will find is not working at all but compensating. Just saying I stopped doing something to find something else to make me happy is not acceptable. He has already lowered himself to this level. If a criminal stole something, are you going to trust them with your possessions??

    You are not a charity. People should be requesting Allah to forgive them. But they are more directed to getting what they want from others-he is weak and already demonstrated as such.

    When you ask Allah to save you from the fire, then at least save yourself from the company of these people. You do not need to concern yourself with their test-that is their test. He is already well enough that he is alive and able to ask for Allah for forgiveness to be saved from the fire-this should be enough for him, he can't complain that he might not have the life he wants, a lot of people don't.
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