That's a toughie!
It sounds to me like you are still working through stuff. And perhaps moving in with your parents, when you still feel so much resentment, would only increase your bitterness!
Can you talk to them about your childhood, and work through the past?
As your parents get older it may become harder and harder to do so, so perhaps
now is the best time?
I am in my thirties, too.
I had difficulties in my childhood, especially with my stepfather.
Having children myself has made me realise just how hard being a parent can be, and it has softened my view of my parents somewhat.
I worked very hard at forgiving my stepfather, and it was a difficult process.
I started by
asking him to forgive me for the mistakes I had made, and I thanked him
for all the good things he provided me with.
But I also learned to stand up for myself and assert
my rights as a stepdaughter!
I have learned to respect him as he is - he is not perfect, and never will be - but he is not all bad either. Just another human being, really
I hope this helps somehow ... sorry if I'm garbling on ...
Blessings.
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