Muslim Teenagers' Issues with "American Culture" (OP)
Salaam everyone,
To begin, I am a young teenager who is 18 years old of age. I live in a Moasic country, Canada. As to you all, I read many forums so far, and most of them relate to "white girls" marrying or dating or being love with a muslim brother. I am young and very "hot headed" when it comes to issues like that. I know one particular muslim sister who is currently dating a sik male. I told her not to do this it is against the islam, it is not right for you as a female to be flirting, and dating guys and especialy that are not muslim. She replied to my advice by saying i am "ugly" "really ugly" . I gave her advice because of she is muslim. So I just left her , was I wrong to do that? Do I still continue to help her. And my other question is that, how can a muslim teenger as myself, who moved to Canada very long ago possibly 15years ago. I am facing a difficult changellge that I am very attracted to females in my city. I try to control myself but it is very difficult, I am stuck. One mind of me say that I should ask and tell the girl I like and stuff, but then other mind says no, it is against islam i shouldn't even be talking to girl or look at her. I have very basic knowledge about islam I learn and listen to wise brothers and sisters along the way. What do I do? And sometimes I have the urge to have sexual contact with the opposite sex as well, I am trying my very best to avoid that but sometimes I think I might commit a very unforgivable sin and Allah might or probably will punish me in this world. Please, thank you.
Thank you everyone, again. Especially to Dhulqarnaeen brother. I appericate your greatest advise and I have decided to fast which I will. And My urge for sexual contact with opposite sex has decreased or gone, now, that was a couple of weeks ago, but now I am doing better also, I don't think I am ready for marriage yet and I probably do not want to get married (posted a topic on that). Thank you everyone.
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Bro Ahmed pretty much said what I would've. Inshallah, if you stick to the advice given you'll be fine - most people have been through the same/similar tribulations so don't be afraid to ask 'cus we aren't afraid to answer.
format_quote Originally Posted by gamblerxix
..She replied to my advice by saying i am "ugly" "really ugly"...
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Slap her eyebrows off next time she says that. Then we'll see who's ugly.
Someone said to the Prophet, "Pray to God against the idolaters and curse them." The Prophet replied, "I have been sent to show mercy and have not been sent to curse." (Muslim)
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format_quote Originally Posted by aamirsaab
Slap her eyebrows off next time she says that. Then we'll see who's ugly.
There is enough incitement around here. Please do not add to it even in jest. I know you did not mean that but even if she's being a b*tch, it does not justify violence.
Le coeur a ses raisons, que la raison ne connait pas. - Blaise Pascal
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format_quote Originally Posted by HeiGou
There is enough incitement around here. Please do not add to it even in jest. I know you did not mean that but even if she's being a b*tch, it does not justify violence.
Seeing as it's you, ok. No more incitement from me.
Someone said to the Prophet, "Pray to God against the idolaters and curse them." The Prophet replied, "I have been sent to show mercy and have not been sent to curse." (Muslim)
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and I probably do not want to get married (posted a topic on that). Thank you everyone.
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