I have kept all of this bottled up for some time and the topic 'hiding' is what inspired me to come out and post this topic.
I am a non-muslim who has been learning about Islam since late last year. I came to Islam with one question and only one question, I didn't intend to become interested and now I feel like this interest is slowly progressing into a genuine desire to convert but the thing is I'm not sure if it is or not, like since learning about Islam I feel that it's a way of life that suits me. It's all tied up, no loose ends, everything makes sense, and most things have an answer.
Much like the person who posted 'hiding' I wouldn't know where to begin trying to explain this to my friends and family.
If I do convert, it won't be for a while yet but I feel like I should be prepared for what at the moment seems like the inevitable.
If you know who I am from this post, please keep it to yourself.
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I'll try to get him here!
But seriously, when he said he got a copy of the Qur'an I was like "That's sooo good!". It felt awesome knowing I played a part in it.
check out my last post in this thread...a very nice story to share.
25:36 And the true servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk the earth with humility and when the ignorant address them, they respond with words of peace.
Masahallah I've read through some of the posts and they are really great advice.
If may add, if you read the stories the companions (may Allah be pleased with them) of our beloved Prophet (Peace be upon him), you'll see how much they suffered. Many left their comfortable lifestyle, like MUS'AB IBN `UMAIR, (may Allah be pleased with him) and others were kicked out of their family. They were willing to endure the separation from their family because they tasted the sweetness of Iman. Thus Allah, The Most Exalted made it easy for them to make more sacrifices. But in return the reward is beyond our imagination. They understood that true happiness, peace and contentment comes from the Creator, not the creation. we depend too much on our friends and family to stand by our side and sometimes this makes us blind. My point is seek acceptance from the Creator by submitting to Him. If He will, by His Mercy, He will make it easy for you.
I hope this help. May Allah, The Most Merciful, make it easy for you.
wsalam
-SI-
It's not an easy thing to do, I am sure you love your family and friends. I had a Roman Catholic background, when I converted it was strictly a decision of faith in Allah. I had to realize my family and friends were never going to approve or be happy with me regardless to how I buttered them up. I had to fear Allah only and join the ranks of the believers here and the international family of Muslims . It's as simple as that, but I know how you feel.
salaam
what kind of friends would they be if they get mad to u just because u choose something?
I agree wholeheartedly with the concept you have stated, yet we all know that people can be that way. Are there not Muslim families who go so far as to actually reject (and sometimes worse) a child who converts from Islam to something else? Anonymous simply has to decide for him/herself whether it is a relationship with Allah or a relationship with people that is going to come first in his/her life, as do us all.
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25:36 And the true servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk the earth with humility and when the ignorant address them, they respond with words of peace.
thank you for that, syilla. Good to know that I didn't break fast.
Guys something not so good happened last night. I had fasted all day and after the sun had set I ate and drank. then I went to my bedroom at about 8:30PM and i think i passed out. I came to very dizzy sometime between 9-10PM.
Was this because I ate and drank so much so suddenly?
Can anyone offer any tips for future fasts?
Does drinking break a fast? (I haven't yet, I'm just wondering.)
Do I eat again as the sun is setting or after it has set?
Yeah drinking breaks the fast, but remember that you're only practising so don't put too much pressure on yourself, and because its just a practise - then you might want to break it if you feel any harm.
The scholar on IslamQA said:
Rather it is makrooh [disliked] for one who is sick to fast if fasting is too difficult for him. His fasting may be haraam [forbidden] if there is the fear that he may be harmed because of fasting.
The fast should be broken at the time when the sun sets, i.e. maghrib. There may be calendars which you may find in the local Masjid which specifically mention what time the sun sets, time for prayers.
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It seems one friend has gone out of his way to assure himself that I won't be converting anytime soon, and he seems to be the type who will get into the ears of most of my other friends, he has also made it quite obvious how he stands on religion in general. But, I thought he would know me a lot better than he clearly does.
I can relate to your hesitation, but, if you believe in life after death and the Judgement Day, you will realize that your true friends are only those who help you towards the ultimate good. Ask yourself how you would respond to the question on that Day, "Why did you not profess faith in the One God and follow His final messenger, Muhammad (pbuh)?" Remember we are not promised tomorrow or even another hour or minute.
Did you know that the first Muslims practiced Islam in secret for some time? The important thing is your faith, to profess your faith to another, and to practice Islam to the fullest extent that you are capable.
Yeah drinking breaks the fast, but remember that you're only practising so don't put too much pressure on yourself, and because its just a practise - then you might want to break it if you feel any harm.
True. I guess I just thought since it was my first fast I really wanted to do it properly.
format_quote Originally Posted by Fi_Sabilillah
The fast should be broken at the time when the sun sets, i.e. maghrib. There may be calendars which you may find in the local Masjid which specifically mention what time the sun sets, time for prayers.
Thanks for clarifying that.
I can't get to my nearest Masjid, alone at least as it is so far away. But me and one of my "to be supportive" friends as I have called them are heading in the direction for the day in a week or two, so it's the perfect oppotunity for me to visit a Masjid I think.
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Remember we are not promised tomorrow or even another hour or minute.
Atleast it shows your dedication! I hope you get to visit the Masjid and i hope you have a good time/experience there. Just remember to pray to God to guide you, and us all on the straight path forever.
It seems to me that your faith is already in the Oneness of Allah. Masha Allah - It is as Allah has willed!
I don't know what country you live in, but becoming a Muslim in USA is not an easy decision to make. However, I believe that it is a journey worth taking.
Even after professing that there is only One God and that Muhammad is His Messenger, it is difficult to practice Islam in the West. I encourage you to read as much as possible to increase your knowledge and faith. If you decide to become a Muslim, try to find a Muslim friend that will be patient with your early learning phase.
You know when you fasted, was it a really hot summers day, or is it cold where you're located at?
It's summer here.
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I don't know what country you live in, but becoming a Muslim in USA is not an easy decision to make. However, I believe that it is a journey worth taking.
I think it will be the same where I am.:laugh:
format_quote Originally Posted by MustafaMc
If you decide to become a Muslim, try to find a Muslim friend that will be patient with your early learning phase.
format_quote Originally Posted by Anonymous Tester
thank you for that, syilla. Good to know that I didn't break fast.
Guys something not so good happened last night. I had fasted all day and after the sun had set I ate and drank. then I went to my bedroom at about 8:30PM and i think i passed out. I came to very dizzy sometime between 9-10PM.
Was this because I ate and drank so much so suddenly?
Can anyone offer any tips for future fasts?
Usually we break fast (or some times we call it iftar) when we hear calling for prayer (adhan Maghrib). Usually we eat about 15 minutes...then we have to go for Maghrib and Isha' prayer. After that we can continue to eat or drink (if you still have not enough )
Did u know that we eat breakfast (sahoor) before we fast???
I love your dedication May Allah help u all the way.
25:36 And the true servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk the earth with humility and when the ignorant address them, they respond with words of peace.
Usually we break fast (or some times we call it iftar) when we hear calling for prayer (adhan Maghrib). Usually we eat about 15 minutes...then we have to go for Maghrib and Isha' prayer. After that we can continue to eat or drink (if you still have not enough )
Oh. Thanks for that!
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Did u know that we eat breakfast (sahoor) before we fast???
I did. But I (stupidly) didn't.
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I love your dedication May Allah help u all the way.
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